ARG... yagt - she doesn't cook/clean/wash clothes, etc etc

[JS80]

Originally posted by: CKent

Originally posted by: yamadakun
Date your mom.

*ahem* his mom is taken :heart:

are you his dad?

 

[Aquaman]

in the ass........... out the door

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[oddyager]

Meh, people like that are obsolete. Dump her and move on.

 

[TheNinja]

Serious answer alert!

I wouldn't say kick her to the curb right away. However, if you think this is going to be long term, make sure you get this out in the open now. People tend to overestimate their work in a relationship/household and underestimate what he other person is doing. But, if this keeps up, you will just get more and more bitter over it which will obviously cause a lot of stress and unhappiness in the relationship. If she is unwilling to change...or perhaps she doesn't agree and she does feel she is putting in equal work....then you'll have to decide what to do at that point.

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: TheNinja
Serious answer alert!

I wouldn't say kick her to the curb right away. However, if you think this is going to be long term, make sure you get this out in the open now. People tend to overestimate their work in a relationship/household and underestimate what he other person is doing. But, if this keeps up, you will just get more and more bitter over it which will obviously cause a lot of stress and unhappiness in the relationship. If she is unwilling to change...or perhaps she doesn't agree and she does feel she is putting in equal work....then you'll have to decide what to do at that point.

don't listen to ninjas......... they will kill you in your sleep

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[mobiblu]

get yourself a nice mail-order wife from asia...

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Originally posted by: DAGTA

Originally posted by: zixxer
WTF. I'm dating somewhere I'm expected to pay for all the sh!t, fix everything, bills etc - yet she "doesn't like" cleaning or laundry, and doesn't/can't cook.


her side is that she "pays sometimes" (yeah, wendy's and fscking mcdonalds), and cooks sometimes (she can't cook, so when she says cook she means watches me cook) - and that she "goes to the grocery store, which I should appreciate more than I do considering she HATES doing it"

ugh. I'm feeling like this 1 sided relationship is ending soon

I see that you are dating an American Princess. Have fun with that. When you want a real woman, look outside of the USA.

boy would i love to really tell you how i feel about your VERY STUPID, IGNORANT POST.
God, i cannot stand dumb posts like this.
Since you say that, are you also looking for a woman that accepts you are the head of the house and will make sure she has her hair done and dress and pearls on and meets you at the door to take your brief case and shoes when you come home from work?

You don't think there are lazy Russian?Korean/Chinese/ Japanese/South American/European women too? Or, its just the Princesses in America, right?

Wait, wait.... Do you have a real wife/GF?

You've just shown your own stereotyping.

I'm looking for EQUALITY... you know.. that thing women claim they want? 50/50, each person gives to the relationship. If one is working more hours, the other does more of the household duties.

Most American women are raised to believe they deserve money, a work-free life, a husband that works his ass off to pay for it all, a maid to clean, and a pool boy to screw when the hubby is too busy working to pay her bills to give her more attention... all because they were born female.

I am, in fact, moving out of the USA in two weeks.

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: cKGunslinger

Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Although it was a stupid reply, I do understand what he/she was trying to say.

Yeah, I understand his position, but the idea that you can only find a "real woman" outside the US is just ludicrous.

True enough, you can find a few 'real women' in the USA, but the pickings are very slim and most of them are married young because some other guy found them first.

 

[TheNinja]

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: TheNinja
Serious answer alert!

I wouldn't say kick her to the curb right away. However, if you think this is going to be long term, make sure you get this out in the open now. People tend to overestimate their work in a relationship/household and underestimate what he other person is doing. But, if this keeps up, you will just get more and more bitter over it which will obviously cause a lot of stress and unhappiness in the relationship. If she is unwilling to change...or perhaps she doesn't agree and she does feel she is putting in equal work....then you'll have to decide what to do at that point.

don't listen to ninjas......... they will kill you in your sleep

Cheers,
Aquaman

shhhh don't give me away, thatlong winded blah blah I typed was actually an attempt to put the OP to sleep so I can kill him and steal his lazy woman

 

[LookingGlass]

Ohhhhhhhhh, please the stereo typing in this thread is ludicrous, come on guys. Some of you guys have no clue, and are whacked.

I'm a woman, I have my own house, which is in my name. I work two jobs to maintain the house, keep it clean, etc, etc. One of those jobs is my own home based business. I like it like that.

I'd dump the lazy ass b!tch. It's called being responsible enough to pull your own weight in a relationship. Yes, it does sound one sided. There are two people in a relationship, it takes two to make it work. If my SO can't pull his own weight, forgetaboutit.