Are you really happy ?

lawaris

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I was talking to one of my online friends ( she is in egypt).... this is how the talk went ... and I realised that most of us are sad for some reason or the other .........



yasmin (2:45 AM) :
hey ricky, are you on live?
Ricky (2:45 AM) :
hey there .............

Ricky (2:45 AM) :
been a long time since we last talked ...:-(
yasmin (2:46 AM) :
yes
yasmin (2:46 AM) :
I miss you
Ricky (2:46 AM) :
I thought that you had hooked up with another guy
Ricky (2:46 AM) :
what all have you been up to all these days ?
yasmin (2:46 AM) :
no, it is not true
Ricky (2:47 AM) :
lol........
yasmin (2:47 AM) :
just working
yasmin (2:47 AM) :
you?
Ricky (2:47 AM) :
me too .........
Ricky (2:47 AM) :
it's almost 3 at night here
Ricky (2:47 AM) :
and I am still working
Ricky (2:48 AM) :

yasmin (2:48 AM) :
my got
Ricky (2:48 AM) :
what ?
yasmin (2:48 AM) :
you are still working
yasmin (2:48 AM) :
terrible
Ricky (2:48 AM) :
yeah .... will have to till morning ... then I have to go and teach a class ...... then study for my own class
Ricky (2:49 AM) :
tomorrow will be very tiring .... esp. without sleep
yasmin (2:49 AM) :
am I disturb you?

Ricky (2:49 AM) :
nah !

it's a break ...
yasmin (2:49 AM) :
ok
yasmin (2:50 AM) :
now it is 9:50 here
Ricky (2:50 AM) :
do u live alone like me ?

or with someone ?
Ricky (2:50 AM) :
I wish I had someone here tonight ....
yasmin (2:50 AM) :
I am so lonely you know
Ricky (2:51 AM) :
I can understand ....
Ricky (2:51 AM) :
I am almost in the same situation
Ricky (2:51 AM) :
my ex- is getting married next month ...
yasmin (2:51 AM) :
what?
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
and I am yet to forget her
yasmin (2:52 AM) :
are you sad?
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
yeah ... not with me ....lol
yasmin (2:52 AM) :
yes you are sad
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
nah !

just a sense of loss ...
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
maybe a lil'
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
sad
yasmin (2:52 AM) :
what is lil?
Ricky (2:52 AM) :
little
yasmin (2:53 AM) :
ok
yasmin (2:53 AM) :
tell me ricky
Ricky (2:53 AM) :
but here I am chatting with an online g/f
Ricky (2:53 AM) :
go on ask
Ricky (2:54 AM) :
????????/
yasmin (2:54 AM) :
how can we catch the happiness?
Ricky (2:55 AM) :
depends ..... I guess we have to be free of the past first ... and hopefully find someone who is someone we are still searching for ....

the happiness with come by itself then
yasmin (2:56 AM) :
why always everything getting worse?
yasmin (2:57 AM) :
I am young and beautiful...
Ricky (2:57 AM) :
u see there is a saying in english

you can appreciate light if only u have seen darkness

yasmin (2:57 AM) :
I have a job
Ricky (2:57 AM) :
hhhmmmm..... send me your pic

u r tempting me
Ricky (2:57 AM) :
seriously

that is not all .....

beauty and a job
yasmin (2:58 AM) :
1.70 cms
yasmin (2:58 AM) :
long red hair
Ricky (2:58 AM) :
wow !
yasmin (2:58 AM) :
blue eyes
yasmin (2:58 AM) :
50 kgs
Ricky (2:58 AM) :
it's getting better ...
Ricky (2:58 AM) :
you are torturing me
Ricky (2:59 AM) :
you just have to keep the faith , yasmin......

someone is waiting for you too .... just like you are waiting for him

it will come with time
yasmin (3:00 AM) :
when?
Ricky (3:00 AM) :
I can't say ... cos' I don't know

but u can surely try to be happy with what u have till then
yasmin (3:01 AM) :
I need to be happy
Ricky (3:01 AM) :
that we all do ... it is a basic human need

and it is in the mind ....
 
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Hmm... I sort agree to you that on some level we are all sad-- but let me give you some advice-- internet only friendships are rarely very comforting- esp if they are guy-girl
 

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Is this legal? Posting a conversation without the consent of the other person I mean... gotta cover our asses here. :Q
 

Calundronius

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I read once that people who go looking for happiness never find it, but those that try to do other things find it along the way.
So that's one way to look at it, or maybe I just read too much.

But to answer your question: Sometimes, yes. Sometimes, no. At this point probably more no than yes.
::shrug::
 

lawaris

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Originally posted by: rubix
i think ricky should date yasmin


lol... here's the rest of it ....

Ricky 5/28/200 3:09 AM you asked me something today yasmin ....

what don't u have ...?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:09 AM I can't understand

Ricky 5/28/200 3:10 AM think about it .... what you don't have ...

and there you will find your answer

yasmin 5/28/200 3:11 AM :'-( please ricky, what do you try to say me?

Ricky 5/28/200 3:12 AM what I am saying is that .... though you may
be very beautiful, sexy , rich ......

it might not be what a particular guy wants
.....
there are a lot of other things which are equally imp.

yasmin 5/28/200 3:13 AM but I am not happy...

yasmin 5/28/200 3:14 AM I want to love someone

Ricky 5/28/200 3:16 AM yeah ... who doesn't ...

but you see it's not enough that you love someone ... the other has to love you too.............. else it doesn/t work

yasmin 5/28/200 3:17 AM I see

Ricky 5/28/200 3:17 AM that's life ........

yasmin 5/28/200 3:18 AM Yes, that is life...But I'm getting tired

Ricky 5/28/200 3:19 AM well......

yasmin 5/28/200 3:19 AM ricky

Ricky 5/28/200 3:19 AM yeah ... am here

yasmin 5/28/200 3:20 AM you are so..

Ricky 5/28/200 3:20 AM what ? I said what I feel.........

yasmin 5/28/200 3:20 AM special man.

Ricky 5/28/200 3:20 AM :)thanks

yasmin 5/28/200 3:20 AM You are so far away me

yasmin 5/28/200 3:21 AM but

Ricky 5/28/200 3:21 AM but what ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:21 AM I can feel u

Ricky 5/28/200 3:22 AM really ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:22 AM yes

Ricky 5/28/200 3:23 AM how do u feel ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:23 AM good

yasmin 5/28/200 3:23 AM very good

Ricky 5/28/200 3:23 AM good doesn't tell me anything ...

yasmin 5/28/200 3:24 AM You are impressing me

yasmin 5/28/200 3:25 AM I can't find the true words sorry

yasmin 5/28/200 3:25 AM my bad eng.

Ricky 5/28/200 3:26 AM hhhhmmmm.....

tell me in your language .......

yasmin 5/28/200 3:26 AM really?

Ricky 5/28/200 3:26 AM yeah .......please

yasmin 5/28/200 3:27 AM Seninle konusmak beni çok mutlu ediyor, keske yaninda olabilseydim.Harika bir insansin ricky.....

yasmin 5/28/200 3:28 AM tell me what do you understand?

Ricky 5/28/200 3:28 AM tell me in what language is this ....

Ricky 5/28/200 3:28 AM I will find it out

yasmin 5/28/200 3:29 AM turkish

Ricky 5/28/200 3:29 AM hold on

Ricky 5/28/200 3:37 AM tried the net ...

Ricky 5/28/200 3:37 AM cannot get a translation ...

Ricky 5/28/200 3:37 AM what does it mean ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:38 AM hmmm

yasmin 5/28/200 3:39 AM I just say

Ricky 5/28/200 3:39 AM yeah ...

yasmin 5/28/200 3:39 AM I'm very happy to talk to you

yasmin 5/28/200 3:39 AM I wish I were there with u

yasmin 5/28/200 3:40 AM you are so wonderfull

Ricky 5/28/200 3:40 AM me too .... but what did that mean ... I will find it out ... even if it takes me days ... can't you tell me ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:40 AM I told you ricky

Ricky 5/28/200 3:41 AM it meant that :)?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:41 AM yes

Ricky 5/28/200 3:42 AM I am not sure how to react ....

yasmin 5/28/200 3:42 AM react?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:43 AM ok I find

Ricky 5/28/200 3:43 AM yeah .. I wish I could say the same ...I enjoy talking to you ...I like your frankness.. but I don't even know how u look

yasmin 5/28/200 3:44 AM I see

yasmin 5/28/200 3:44 AM you told me something

yasmin 5/28/200 3:44 AM that is life !

Ricky 5/28/200 3:44 AM yeah yasmin ... you see .... I think we are
already friends

Ricky 5/28/200 3:45 AM but if I have to feel for you ... I have to
know you too

yasmin 5/28/200 3:45 AM great! you really special..

Ricky 5/28/200 3:46 AM I guess you were tired of lies just like I am
( after our ex-) so I have tried to be
truthful with you

yasmin 5/28/200 3:47 AM I am aware ricky

Ricky 5/28/200 3:48 AM hey ... can u do this .. if you cannot access
a scanner ?

yasmin 5/28/200 3:48 AM Yes I can

yasmin 5/28/200 3:48 AM promise

Ricky 5/28/200 3:49 AM oks ... I trust you

here is my address ...........

Ricky 5/28/200 3:49 AM send me a letter with a pic there

yasmin 5/28/200 3:50 AM ok rikcy, I will do

Ricky 5/28/200 3:51 AM and keep the address with yourself

yasmin 5/28/200 3:51 AM ok

Ricky 5/28/200 3:51 AM I will be here till end of June ... then I
will be going to some other city here

Ricky 5/28/200 3:52 AM I will surely reply if you want me to and if I
get the letter from you

yasmin 5/28/200 3:52 AM I see

Ricky 5/28/200 3:52 AM I think we are going to be very nice friends ...

yasmin 5/28/200 3:52 AM I hope ricky

Ricky 5/28/200 3:53 AM maybe more ... u never know what future has in
store :)

Ricky 5/28/200 3:53 AM but for now ... let's be there for one another
....

yasmin 5/28/200 3:53 AM yes, It is true

Ricky 5/28/200 3:53 AM whenever one of us needs the other

yasmin 5/28/200 3:54 AM I know

Ricky 5/28/200 3:55 AM oks... I gotta go back to my work now
be there tomorrow

yasmin 5/28/200 3:55 AM ok ricky

Ricky 5/28/200 3:55 AM and take care

yasmin 5/28/200 3:55 AM u too

Ricky 5/28/200 3:56 AM :)bye

 

BillyBatson

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Originally posted by: AznMaverick
happy? not at this time, probably at an all time low now. :(


i know how that is... at an all time low now, far worse than when i was younger because in the last 3 years i was actually wuite happy, EXTREMLY happy at one point, so now that that isn't there, eeeeeeeeeeeeeyannnnnnmboom hits rock bottom, feels worse cuz now i knwo what happiness is... Yet for a week now i feel better since i have somethign to look forward to :)

but i agree most people are not happy about at least SOMETHING, but it is scary how many of us are not just sad but quite depressed most of the time...
i hope all of you reading this and even those who aren't the best in life....
 

TheCorm

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internet only friendships are rarely very comforting- esp if they are guy-girl

Too true.

I am happy in work but not happy enough with my social life :( But when my mates come over, we go out, drink to much and make arses of ourselves....it gets better.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: TheCorm
internet only friendships are rarely very comforting- esp if they are guy-girl

Too true.

I am happy in work but not happy enough with my social life :( But when my mates come over, we go out, drink to much and make arses of ourselves....it gets better.

Mwahaha... soooo true! There's nothing more fun (well, depends on the situation) than going out and just going nuts with your buds...
 

eakers

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i am in a really really happy place in my life.

its not something that happens by accident. there is only one person that can change your life and the only thing stopping you is fear and laziness.


*kat. <-- feels like a fortune cookie in this thread.