Are you afraid of finding another guy attractive?

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Richdog

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I have no problem whatsoever commenting if another man is good-looking or not, or well-dressed etc etc. It doesn't count as fancying them though, i'm a woman lover but not one of those homophobic types so I dont have to worry about whether something sounds or looks gay. Im confident in my straight-ness. :beer:
 

Wallydraigle

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Sometimes when I'm out I see another guy and think he's attractive, and it makes me so worried I can't concentrate, and I have to go home and get a hold of myself. Sometimes I throw up it makes me so nervous. I find myself unable to look people in the eye for fear of finding them attractive. Lately I just stay at home in a dark room so I don't have to look at anyone. I put up thick curtains so if someone happens to walk by outside I don't have to look at them through the window. I have considered blinding myself so I won't have to be affraid of seeing any attractive men anymore. I think gouging my eyes out with chopsticks is the way to go, because if I just dump bleach in my eyes there's a chance I won't go totally blind and I'll have to do it again, and it's possible that I'll be taken to the hospital in the meanwhile and see an attractive doctor there before I have access to more bleach. I would classify my worry as moderate.
 

PoPPeR

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no. they're the competition, and in order to get a girl, you must know what they want. I have no problem looking at a guy and admitting to myself that a girl probably thinks he looks better then I do or something like that.
 

Howard

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I don't mind telling a male friend of mine that they look well that day (nice clothes or something else) and I'm not afraid of being complimented on my appearance by a guy. I'm heterosexual.
 

TheVrolok

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I'll admit that I've found other men attractive, and I'm completely heterosexual. It's no big deal.
 

TheVrolok

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Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: TheVrolok
I'll admit that I've found other men attractive, and I'm completely heterosexual. It's no big deal.

No. you are gay.


Actually no, and I've had enough success with women to prove it. :)
 

BD231

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I've NEVER found the male body/face attractive, in fact I've tried to figure out what exactly attracts a lady to a guy physically and I just can't figure it out.

I see so many different looking guys with attractive laidies and to be honest I think physical fitness or financial status is really the biggest deciding factor.

EDIT: I stand corrected, I like the way Tom Cruise and Wessly Sinpes look. They exude a certain "cool" that I can't quite put my finger on, but in any case I'd imagine laides would think the same.
 

Jeff7181

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Originally posted by: Nocturnal
Are you worried about that? It's normal. Search for a thread by me. I did a poll on this exact question.

I think when a male tells you that he doesn't know the difference between a handsome guy and an ugly guy he's lying because he's homophobic.

I see some guys who my female friends call hot, and I don't see it... I don't think I'm a homophobe because of it, maybe I just have different taste?
 

SirStev0

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Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: TheVrolok
I'll admit that I've found other men attractive, and I'm completely heterosexual. It's no big deal.

No. you are gay.

see your a homophob
your afraid that if you say another man is attractive it will make you gay
and you know you have the potential to be gay so you are afraid to let that out for fear that once it is out then you will be fully fledged homo.

its completely ok to find the same sex attractive

i mean come on look at brad pitt,
if i was a women id bang the hell out of him
but im not a woman and i dont look at him as a sexual object though i do find him attractive
if i were gay i would , id bang the hell out of him too
but yet again i m not gay and he is not a sexual object... but i stilll find him attractive
 

EyeMWing

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I do it all the time. Then make jokes to Jessie about my being gay, and she laughs and usually drags me off to a secluded place. Making chicks think you're gay = TEH GOODZ
 

aircooled

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Originally posted by: SirStev0
Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: TheVrolok
I'll admit that I've found other men attractive, and I'm completely heterosexual. It's no big deal.

No. you are gay.

see your a homophob
your afraid that if you say another man is attractive it will make you gay
and you know you have the potential to be gay so you are afraid to let that out for fear that once it is out then you will be fully fledged homo.

its completely ok to find the same sex attractive

i mean come on look at brad pitt,
if i was a women id bang the hell out of him
but im not a woman and i dont look at him as a sexual object though i do find him attractive
if i were gay i would , id bang the hell out of him too
but yet again i m not gay and he is not a sexual object... but i stilll find him attractive

You're cute. swallow?

 

JHoNNy1OoO

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Oct 18, 2003
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I'm comfortable with my sexuality to find other guys attractive. Just sad that people think when you find someone from the same sex attractive then you must be a homosexual. :/

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EvilYoda

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huh...just read a quick few replies, but I"m surprised at the number of people saying that it's okay. Maybe there is hope for OT after all...or maybe all the homophobes aren't online on Sundays. (Coincidence...? ;) jp jp)