Are you able to not talk about your past/same for your date, about both your past relationship?

[CHfan4ever]

Everybody keep telling its a bad thing to talk about our past relationship, but is it me or every time iv date girls, it ALWAYS come into the conversation, either i start or she start it???

Iv never met a girl that it wasent a subject of the discussion...you?

 

[spidey07]

if they bring up past relationships on the first couple of dates then you don't date them anymore.

damaged goods.

sure I'm able to talk about past stuff with a date..

the point is it is extremely disrespectful.

 

[CHfan4ever]

this thread need a bump...

 

[KarenMarie]

my b/f knows everything that has ever happened to me. It was only fair, since i had such deep trust issues for the first 2yrs we were together. If was only fair that he knew why.

And I am friends with an ex of mine who still calls for the holiday's or my bday (he is married now)... and my b/f talks to him more than i do.

when the b/f tells me about his past... he never refers to anyone by name or anything. he usually refers to them as... that unit. But I have no problem with it, cause I am the love of his life and there is no threat from anywhere.