Are you a cuddler?

[Jeff7181]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Nobody told me what a "man card" is yet.

If you have to ask.... 😛

It's the card that identifies you as a man, and sometimes people threaten to confiscate them.

Thanks :beer:

 

[Hammer]

i used to sometimes with female friends. just the SO now.

 

[lilFajita]

I :heart: the cuddle.

But I couldn't cuddle with anyone that I wasn't attracted to...like a buddy or a girlfriend. Would have be someone I was into in some way.

 

[hdeck]

i cuddle with my pillow every night.

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: DaiShan

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: InverseOfNeo
I love to cuddle.🙂

Me too. 🙂 I cuddle with my close friends (male and female), with my significant other (when I have one *sigh*), and with "friends-with-benefits". I just love the feeling of being close to someone... it's very comforting/soothing/relaxing.

Agreed. And to anyone who wants my man card...come take a crack at me *brandishes machete* 😛

I dont think your little knife is going to deflect all the pellets in a 12ga shotgun blast. But, hey, I may be wrong, and I'm quite open to scientific testing, as long as I am the guy holding the Mossberg, not the guy holding the machete.

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: SackOfAllTrades

Originally posted by: fanerman91
I like cuddling... but no SO. Well, I'd assume I'd like cuddling but I've never had an SO. I like holding things like pillows and such.

dude, half of ATOT's SOs are pillows...

Nah, more than half od ATOTer's SOs are socks.

😛

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: Chrono
I hate it when my friends that are girls, come up to me and hug me... then start cuddling me. I usually say something like "WTF! Stop touching me BITCH!"

Some people are just touchy like that.

😀

I hate when my female friends grab my ass.

 

[MaxDepth]

I came from a family of huggers, so it kinda turned me against such things.
Took me past college, but now I'm comfortable with it. Especially since I've been in a training regimen this year, I like for a girl to lay on top of me or just to the side and lay her head on my chest.

Makes me feel oh so butch. lol
🙂



Now my question: when does the cuddling stop and the making out (or sex) begin? And can it stop at just that, with no hard feelings or confused feelings?
I know that typically, us males have a hard time separating the two. Especially in an intimate setting.

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: Chrono
I hate it when my friends that are girls, come up to me and hug me... then start cuddling me. I usually say something like "WTF! Stop touching me BITCH!"

Some people are just touchy like that.

😀

I hate when my female friends grab my ass.

lol

 

[Sunny129]

Originally posted by: wyvrn
Yep cuddling is a good way to get close without going full naked assault.

unless you're cuddling naked 😉.

anyways i hope i didn't sound like too much of an @sshole in my first post. i guess i was just trying to say that cuddling w/ someone you don't particularly know well enough to care about is a tad uncomfortable. when i get my drunk self into that situation, i tend to stay on my side of the bed after all is said and done.:beer:

 

[thraxes]

YES

and not getting enough of it lately, and will most likely not be getting any for a long time to come 🙁

 

[IEatChildren]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Nobody told me what a "man card" is yet.

If you have to ask.... 😛

It's the card that identifies you as a man, and sometimes people threaten to confiscate them.

You mean balls?

 

[Lager]

Cuddling with your hand is not what she's talking about.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: lager
Cuddling with your hand is not what she's talking about.

I am sorry we are not all as flexible as you are lager....learn that trick from a dog?

 

[NogginBoink]

Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Hey... I started a poll about this and it got LOCKED DOWN (<a class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.cfm?catid=38&threadid=1158257&FTVAR_MSGDBTABLE=" target=blank>Double standard</A>). Once again, this is proof of the blatant inequality of gender bias on ATOT. 🙁

Different standards for males and females?

Huh. Who woulda thunk it.

 

[acidvoodoo]

i love to cuddle, but havent in awhile cause i havent been close to anyone, and i despite having a ton of female friends, most of em would proly feel umcomfortable with it. however, am off over to a girls house tonite to watch halloween type movies, may be a good time to initiate cuddles[think she may be slightly interested], not sure yet though, will do my best tonite 😛

 

[emb09]

nope. i cocoon. i need my own set of sheets/blankets.

 

[WayneTeK]

I don't cuddle... I fondle... 😀

 

[lowfatbaconboy]

interesting thread.....
cuddle yes if its a (female) friend ive known for a while or a girl a care about but friends w/ benefits and just casual stuff......no it kinda odd ...it seems like a more intimate thing

and can't sleep and cuddle im so used to sleeping in a double bed or a twin bed sprawled out

 

[geckojohn]

I cuddled a lot with my GF today. We just hung out and watched tv together. It felt pretty good 😉

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: geckojohn
I cuddled a lot with my GF today. We just hung out and watched tv together. It felt pretty good 😉

Son of A............ you cuddled me in the morning and then you cuddled her :Q 🙁 I feel so used 🙁

Cheers,
Aquaman 😉

 

[fumbduck]

I cuddle with my dog. He's hot.

I cuddle with my roommate. He's hot too.

 

[Luagsch]

i only cuddle with my better half when there is one, or with the casual female bodies that lay in the same bed as me. i'm not in that touchie-touchie stuff...

 

[TTM77]

I can only cuddle awhile.. like 5mins. After that it gets too hot. 😀

 

[ViviTheMage]

i cuddle, only with my girlfriend, its great i love her to death when we cuddle!