Are swingers creepy? Fun?

[iwearnosox]

I have some friends that are swingers. I have no issue with it personally, they're good looking cats, it's always fun to see her get predatorial on other women. I don't think they do it so often as to qualify for an actual "swingers" label but they do it now and again. It seems like this kind of thing has become more acceptable by the year in California.

What's your opinion?

 

[nakedfrog]

Sounds fine to me.

 

[krunchykrome]

Doesnt appeal to me.

 

[pontifex]

do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

 

[PricklyPete]

My ex-girlfriend had some friends who were swingers. They tried several times to get her to do a three-some with them. It didn't bother me. They would just ask and didn't pester you if you weren't interested. They were also a really good looking couple. I would have been all over the wife if she wanted to do a threesome with my girlfriend and I.

 

[iwearnosox]

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PricklyPete
My ex-girlfriend had some friends who were swingers. They tried several times to get her to do a three-some with them. It didn't bother me. They would just ask and didn't pester you if you weren't interested. They were also a really good looking couple. I would have been all over the wife if she wanted to do a threesome with my girlfriend and I.

ask?

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Hahahahahaha:laugh:

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

wtf? its ok for single girl but not single guy? sexist bastards!

 

[AMDZen]

I have no issue with it personally either - but I won't be trying it out anytime soon.

 

[waggy]

shrug i see nothing wrong with it as LONG as both people are 100% ok with it. I know one women who wants to join me and my wife (mainly for my wife) but my wife won't go for it. heh

oh and my wife's good friend works at a swingers club in town.

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

wtf? its ok for single girl but not single guy? sexist bastards!

Could you imagine the sausagefest that would ensue if single guys were allowed?

 

[Ricochet]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

wtf? its ok for single girl but not single guy? sexist bastards!

Night clubs don't let single guys in for free, but single girls are always let through. Yep, them sexist bastards!

 

[iwearnosox]

Originally posted by: waggy
shrug i see nothing wrong with it as LONG as both people are 100% ok with it. I know one women who wants to join me and my wife (mainly for my wife) but my wife won't go for it. heh

oh and my wife's good friend works at a swingers club in town.

I think this begs a second question- let's say everyone's ok with it. How would you feel if your wife was intimate with the other man? truly ok with it?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: ricochet

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

wtf? its ok for single girl but not single guy? sexist bastards!

Night clubs don't let single guys in for free, but single girls are always let through. Yep, them sexist bastards!

call them sexist. i call them marketing geniuses.

 

[pontifex]

what if i go in by myself and tell them that my gf/wife had to work late and will be here shortly but i want to get started anyway? think they would buy it?

 

[Queasy]

Originally posted by: ricochet

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: pontifex
do you have to be a couple to be swingers or can you go by yourself? lol

Well you have to be a couple or a single girl to be successful. The single guy thing is not welcome at swingers parties.

wtf? its ok for single girl but not single guy? sexist bastards!

Night clubs don't let single guys in for free, but single girls are always let through. Yep, them sexist bastards!

If they didn't, the place would either a) go out of business or b) be overrun with guys all the time

 

[EtOH]

A buddy of mine "borrowed" a swinger's wife for my bachelor party. Interesting to say the least, and no I didn't do her, but plenty of others did.

 

[iwearnosox]

Originally posted by: pontifex
what if i go in by myself and tell them that my gf/wife had to work late and will be here shortly but i want to get started anyway? think they would buy it?

Lol. No- you're only allowed in if your girlfriend is there at the door. I have seen guys drop $300-$400 to "bypass" the rule at a pleasurezone party though. (pleasurezonesf.com.)

 

[MoFoEd]

No problem with it either.
If they let single guys in aswingers party, it would be one big sausagefest.

 

[Queasy]

Oh, and I imagine swingers are just like other people (minus the sexual proclivities). Some can be fine. Some can be a$$holes.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: MoFoEd
No problem with it either.
If they let single guys in aswingers party, it would be one big sausagefest.

Yeah, I think then it would rapidly turn from a swinger's party to a gangbang.

 

[waggy]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: waggy
shrug i see nothing wrong with it as LONG as both people are 100% ok with it. I know one women who wants to join me and my wife (mainly for my wife) but my wife won't go for it. heh

oh and my wife's good friend works at a swingers club in town.

I think this begs a second question- let's say everyone's ok with it. How would you feel if your wife was intimate with the other man? truly ok with it?

yes i would be ok with it. Its just sex. If she wanted to have sex with another guy etc yes i would be fine.

 

[amdforever2]

I don't think those people are generally psychologically healthy.


I know a swinger "family". The two sisters, and one of the sisters husbands.

The sister I know best quit her excellent job because of an "emotional breakdown" with her bf. Then fvcked some guy she just met, got pregneant.

Now she's trying to convince babies daddy to do threesomes with her and this other bisexual guy.

She likes bisexual guys.......



From any outside, reasonable perspective, their lives are just totally ****** up.

 

[MX2]

Live and let live