Are swingers creepy? Fun?

[spacelord]

The only confirmed swingers I've ever met or know of I would not want to see naked. I shudder thinking of it.

 

[compuwiz1]

My wife said she would only swing with Shania Twain in our bed. Beyond that, she has not other interest.

 

[TheSource]

who doesn't love an old fashioned gang bang?

 

[ActuaryTm]

Ask this user.

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: LookingGlass

Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
Been there, done that! When I was younger and stupider

No matter how consensual it is, or how OK with it everybody is with it, it never works out that way. Almost always ends in broken marriages/relationships and destroying long time friendships.

Definately exciting and can lead to some OMG sex, but definately not worth it IMHO

Agreed, have known people that have tried it, liked it at first, things went downhill later.

For those of you, that *think* it would be a good time, you've probably never done it. It's easy to say, you'd be ok with it. For some, maybe you really can pull it off, and you and your SO would be fine, more power to you. For the majority of people, it just doesn't work like that. Depends on the people for sure. Not for everyone.

Agreed... it isn't for everyone. I have found from my own personal experience that it is the guy who is gun ho about it, but most times not the girl. In very few cases the lady pretends to be interested. But when it comes down to it and the bluff gets called.. that is when the trouble starts. The only swingers that I have known in the past that were successful swingers were with women who were bisexual. That is just my personal experience. They enjoyed women just as much as the men.

 

[Bumrush99]

Not my cup of tea..
I have a very high sex drive with my wife, but bringing someone else in to the bedroom would probably create problems down the line.