Your perception that LEDs are extremely bright or harmful are probably due to a few reasons.
1. Color Temperature - Most LEDs in recent history are 5000K+, which is very harsh to your eyes due to the scattering nature of higher frequency light. Switch to ~2700K and that issue goes away.
2. Optical Control - Many early LED lamps and fixtures did not put much emphasis on optical control or visual comfort. Optical control hurts efficiency, so many LED lamps and fixtures avoid it and just use bare LEDs, which result in high candela concentrations into your eye. The most visually comforting fixtures/lamps have a very diffuse optics or prismatic structure to break up the light source. Most LED office lighting now uses indirect optics, meaning, the LEDs are pointed up into the fixture (white painted surface) and then the diffuse light bounces down into the environment. This is very visually pleasing because the light is spread over the entire fixture instead of a smaller area like a lamp envelope. Visual comfort is all about candela per square meter (nit). 1000lm out of a lamp (9 sq inches) is much more harsh than 1000lm out of a 2x2' (576 sq inches) troffer fixture. This is why most traditional lamps have lamp shades.
3. Electrical Control - Some LED lamps/fixtures use very simple (cheap) electrical circuits that will produce high frequency flicker. Depending on the type of circuit, this flicker can be bad and/or be influenced by your local power source. Some cheap direct AC fixtures have a bad perceptive flicker which is similar to the old days of fluorescent flicker, and can make you feel nauseated.
It's technically lower freq "flicker" which causes motion problems, and has little to do cheapness per se since it doesn't cost any more to pulse at higher freq w/ typical led drivers. Led flicker is generally worse since the pulses are closer to a square waveform.
"Begs the question" doesn't mean what you think it does.
It's been used wrong long enough that it's the standard accepted definition outside the context of making an argument, and technically correct usage is more of a treat.