approaching women...

[skim milk]

not using this as an excuse... but since I was born & raised in an east Asian culture where the guys aren't assertive, it makes things a little harder when the girl I'm pursuing is Americanized

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: MetalMat
After the 100th time of getting rejected (boyfriend, lesbian, about to leave, engaged, all excuses!) I just stopped giving a fvck.

now that you don't give a fvck i'll bet the wimmins are all over you

 

[scorpmatt]

Originally posted by: fritolays
not using this as an excuse... but since I was born & raised in an east Asian culture where the guys aren't assertive, it makes things a little harder when the girl I'm pursuing is Americanized

I read that, and those words popped out at me.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: fritolays
By what age do you think a guy should have gotten over this fear?
I feel like I'm in high school again... I'm 20 years old... not a teenager anymore. I'm ashamed of myself

Im 34 and still have trouble when Im not introduced...
I find it VERY akward to just walk up to someone...

now once Im introduced then I can talk all night long.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: scorpmatt

Originally posted by: fritolays
not using this as an excuse... but since I was born & raised in an east Asian culture where the guys aren't assertive, it makes things a little harder when the girl I'm pursuing is Americanized

I read that, and those words popped out at me.

 

[scorpmatt]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: scorpmatt

Originally posted by: fritolays
not using this as an excuse... but since I was born & raised in an east Asian culture where the guys aren't assertive, it makes things a little harder when the girl I'm pursuing is Americanized

I read that, and those words popped out at me.

wow, heh, missed that.

 

[scorpmatt]

ok, thats freaky. triple post?

 

[scorpmatt]

whoa, the infamous double post

 

[apac]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: MetalMat
After the 100th time of getting rejected (boyfriend, lesbian, about to leave, engaged, all excuses!) I just stopped giving a fvck.

now that you don't give a fvck i'll bet the wimmins are all over you

Yup. That's how it worked with me, anyway. One day I concluded it just wasn't worth the effort and stopped trying. Not 2 weeks later the girl that prompted me to think that (so out of my league) was my gf.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: scorpmatt
whoa, the infamous double post

you were excited, that s'alright

 

[DivideBYZero]

Originally posted by: scorpmatt

Originally posted by: fritolays
not using this as an excuse... but since I was born & raised in an east Asian culture where the guys aren't assertive, it makes things a little harder when the girl I'm pursuing is Americanized

I read that, and those words popped out at me.

Hmmm, interesting choice of words...


You need someone to show you the way to the door of the closet.

 

[scorpmatt]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: scorpmatt
whoa, the infamous double post

you were excited, that s'alright

but but but but, its wasn't just 2, it was 3! and the first one I edited didnt say I edited it.

 

[huesmann]

Originally posted by: gigapet
your so fvcking money man and you dont even know it. The women are dying for you to talk to them.

Yeah, see the little bunny rabbit over there?