anything wrong with being a 20 year old virgin?

[melly]

Absolutely nothing. Maybe you just haven't had the opportunity, or had the opportunity but didn't dig the chick. I once deflowered a 20 y/o virgin, incidentally.

 

[Chu]

Originally posted by: Reon
well?

edit: ok apparently a simple yes/no will not do. i am not inept with woman. i have hooked up before just never slept with anyone.

i am not gay, i am perfectly straight

. . . . 300 votes in one day. This sure tuched a nerve.

 

[neonerd]

no

 

[erub]

well i hope not also - i've been close a couple of times but never done it. a friend of mine wants us to lose ours together on her 21st (i will be 21 by then) but i'm not sure about that. I'm also dating another girl right now, we will see how that goes; she is also a virgin.

Maybe I have loser friends, but most of them are virgins also; yep, fraternity guys too. It might have to do with the conservative school I go to; I don't really see a problem though.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: mugs

Originally posted by: Reon
wonder if it's ok to sleep with a friend? but probably should add some kind of clause in there.

Why waste the first time on someone you have no feelings for? Call me old fashioned, but doing it just to get it over with seems dumb to me.

friend bedbuddies are great, however, for the first time usually not the best as chances are the first time is emotionally confusing at best. Once you get a couple under your belt (pun intended) then working single friends into the mix works best for many people now. Chances are you are out with them anyway, you trust them, and generally get along with them....has all the makings of a good night.