Originally posted by: QueHuong
Originally posted by: PrinceofWands
I guess I'd say quit judging things by their employability and economic status. Jobs aren't important in life, they're what get in the way of what's important in life. If your SO believes that and you don't, one of you needs to say goodbye because it's never going to work.
I love philosophy, but I'm saving that for my PhD. What do I plan on doing with it? Absolutely nothing. Oh, I'd take a professor position if I found one, but it's not the goal. There are MANY more reasons to go to school other than employment. In fact, I'd say if you're only going to school for a job then you're wasting EVERYONE's time and money. Many of the most successful and richest people in the world have no degrees. The only thing a job degree will do is let you work for someone else for the rest of your life.
kk, sorry, /rant.
Your views are very similar to hers. As such, I almost completely disagree with you.
For example, on money. I want a lucrative career because I'm somewhat shallow and I'm materialistic.
But at the same time, I want to provide my kids the very best; I want financial independence, and I want choices and options. The lack of money will take those away. Like you, she doesn't see it this way. I can respect that, as long as she is self-sufficient. But I do question whether she'll be able to provide her kids the same opportunities as someone who's making a doctor's salary. And I do question on whether she'll be truly happy when she's still paying off school loans many years after she graduates.
From Rich Dad Poor Dad, the lack of money is the root of all evil.
Also like you, she has no real plans after college. That's understandable somewhat, as I'm not exactly sure what specific career I want to get into. However, my engineering degree is versatile and will provide me with many choices upon graduation. With her, she's just gonna wing it. And her degree will provide her with fewer choices, which has me worried.
And while you're right in that some very successful people do not even have degrees, but really now...they're exceptions. The fallacy you're committing is that of the biased sample. On the other hand, I may be wrong in my assumption that a philosophy degree limits career choices. And so if anyone has statistics, please show them. I really hope I'm wrong, but based on stats for other liberal arts, I don't think my assumption is wrong.
And while I disgree with you on most of your views, they will be helpful in helping me understand her motivation more.