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<< If nobody is normal, and everybody is a bit of a fruitcake, then how do psychology professors know how tto recognize normal people and normal behavior? >>
Dude, they take the traits the majority of people share, combine them, and deem it 'normal behavior.' Everyone deviates from this 'normal behavior' in one way or another. So technically, yes, everyone IS a bit of a 'fruitcake.' >>
This is clearly not the answer.
Most people pick their nose, but that is not normal behavior, it is icky. The proper thing to do is to wash your nose at the lavatory. And so on and so forth. >>
This clearly is the answer according the college I attended. I suggest you do the same someday. Psychologists aren't concerned with what's icky or not. They are concerned with norms, and picking your nose IS normal. If you run to the bathroom and 'wash your nose' every time you have a booger, that is NOT normal. >>
Ok, I've had about enough of all this.
There's two kinds of psych, there's the kind big winded fap,fap boys like you learn in college textbooks and there's the real life kind you learn working in the field actually caring for troubled people.
What is "Normal" you ask ? normal is a relative term that is defined by your peer group . A working definition of normal for clinical staff is is "Can the patient care for himself, is he a danger to self or others" for less ill but still troubled indivuals
the question is "are the patient's symptoms interfering with his/her ability to accomplish their stated goals?"
If I drive a semi for a living it wouldn't seem "normal" to me that anybody would sit in front of a computer all day nefing here, but as a clinical staff, as long as a client is not presenting a danger to himself or others then my job is to help/him or her deal with symptoms that the client has identified as being cause of distress to him even if that includes helping him or her to achieve goals that the therapist doesn't share. (minus of course criminal acts)
Absent gross pychotic break,the client identifies what is "normal" for him/her. With the help of therapy he develops greater insight and clarity into the issues that hamper him in pursuit of the lifestyle he has chosen. This insight, sometimes combined with medication hopefully allows the patient to move forward.
The patient is at all times in the driver's seat, the patient identifies his peer group, and his definition of normal, a good therapist is just someone to help guide him back onto the path he has chosen for himself.
Btw, those fancy 4 yr degree's ? those are good, they'll come in real handy on the unit, we can always use extra flooor mats in the patient shower rooms