Update
Since the surgery was postponed and we had an "extra" weekend, me and the wife went to the poconos for our "last wknd of the summer", so I apologize for not posting earlier. While we were there, we got a call from my bro-in-law letting us know that Tuesdays surgery has also been postponed.
The problem still is that my sister is not responding to the plasmapheresis as they expected, and she still has antibodies against me in her blood, which would make it hard for her body to accept the new kidney., This is an unforeseen obstacle, and the nephrologist at Columbia said that it is rare for the pheresis not to work within the first 4-5 treatments.
We are meeting with her personal nephrologist today to see what her options are; they dont want to keep doing the pheresis treatments, because it is risky and also the chance of it working goes exponentially down with each treatment.
At this point they don't know if she will be able to use my kidney at all, and we are all kind of in limbo until we find out more from the doctors. Ill keep you all updated as I find out.
Its been an emotional roller coaster for me and my wife, and I truly appreciate all of the kind words and well wishes from all of you.