Then f*** em' dude. You owe them nothing. You did what you had to do to make a better life for yourself and you are continuing to do so. Many people take your situation and use it as an excuse for all their problems when they have full control over how they handle it.Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I dropped out of High School when I was younger. Moved to Galveston, and have been working full time ever since.
Everything I have I bought myself. I pay all my own bills, have my own place, my own car, and a job where I can get online. I got my GED and am putting myself through college. I have 0 help from my parents.
You WILL be successfull with this kind of motivation. I had to put myself through college also as my parents didn't help out at all... but it has taught me so many lessons and I thank them for that.
I don't thank them at all. They don't help me because they don't care. Not because they think it will teach me a lesson or because they can't. They did not care when I dropped out. They did not care when I moved, and they don't care that I am in college.
Originally posted by: badmouse
any high school dropouts here? your story?
Originally posted by: Armitage
badmouse, you might want to look at this: http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/p23-210.pdf
It shows statistics on earnings by various education levels. Of course, there are outliers like apparently some of the people posting here. And money can't buy you happiness - though sometimes it makes a nice downpayment 😛
Originally posted by: pontifex
wasn't bill gates a college drop-out?
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Armitage
badmouse, you might want to look at this: http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/p23-210.pdf
It shows statistics on earnings by various education levels. Of course, there are outliers like apparently some of the people posting here. And money can't buy you happiness - though sometimes it makes a nice downpayment 😛
I went to college and I'm not defending dropping out of high school, but that study is simply what the average person of each educational level makes.
That study does not guage "opportunity." If you are motivated you get almost anything you want in life no matter your education.
Most people who drop out of high school do so simply because they are losers. They are the people you see working at gas stations and fast food joints. They have no motivation, never have had any, and probably never will.
The incomes in the link you cited are not completely the result of lack of education, they are the result of lack of motivation and ability.
Motivation and ambition is what causes people to aquired a lot of education, not the other way around. Education isn't the first step, ambition is. People become successful lawyers, executives, or whatever because they are motivated, NOT because they have a lot of education (although in most cases education is required to gain the position), it's just that their motivation led them to aquire education in the first place.
I think what the OP is asking, is it possible for a motivated high school dropout to succeed.
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Armitage
badmouse, you might want to look at this: http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/p23-210.pdf
It shows statistics on earnings by various education levels. Of course, there are outliers like apparently some of the people posting here. And money can't buy you happiness - though sometimes it makes a nice downpayment 😛
I went to college and I'm not defending dropping out of high school, but that study is simply what the average person of each educational level makes.
That study does not guage "opportunity." If you are motivated you get almost anything you want in life no matter your education.
Most people who drop out of high school do so simply because they are losers. They are the people you see working at gas stations and fast food joints. They have no motivation, never have had any, and probably never will.
The incomes in the link you cited are not completely the result of lack of education, they are the result of lack of motivation and ability.
Motivation and ambition is what causes people to aquired a lot of education, not the other way around. Education isn't the first step, ambition is. People become successful lawyers, executives, or whatever because they are motivated, NOT because they have a lot of education (although in most cases education is required to gain the position), it's just that their motivation led them to aquire education in the first place.
I think what the OP is asking, is it possible for a motivated high school dropout to succeed.
Originally posted by: Armitage
Like I said, these are statistics, and there are outliers. The average H.S. dropout is not very succesful, at least economically. I think there are probably two primary classes of dropouts - motivated, disciplined, overachievers who have a plan and don't want to piss around in H.S., and lazy undisciplined unmotivated people who just don't want to go to school. The former have a shot at it, even though the odds are stacked against them. I suggest that they are the minority of dropouts and many will likely immediately get a GED, start junior college, join the military, etc. as some folks have posted here. The latter will be living in your basement for decades.
I suspect if you saw all the data from the statistics I posted that the distribution might be bimodal. A large peak for the losers, and another smaller one for the others. And of course, that holds for all levels of education - I've known some highly educated folks that I would consider to be failures in terms of their careers and economic situation. But on average more education = more success, at least economically.
Originally posted by: Gl4di4tor
Originally posted by: badmouse
any high school dropouts here? your story?
If your thinking of dropping out your insane, during these times you not only need a college degree but also graduate degrees aswell inorder to be successful. But then again there is always the lottery.
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Education does not create motivation, motivation creates education.
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Gl4di4tor
How can I get this "ambition" you speak of?
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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Armitage
Like I said, these are statistics, and there are outliers. The average H.S. dropout is not very succesful, at least economically. I think there are probably two primary classes of dropouts - motivated, disciplined, overachievers who have a plan and don't want to piss around in H.S., and lazy undisciplined unmotivated people who just don't want to go to school. The former have a shot at it, even though the odds are stacked against them. I suggest that they are the minority of dropouts and many will likely immediately get a GED, start junior college, join the military, etc. as some folks have posted here. The latter will be living in your basement for decades.
I suspect if you saw all the data from the statistics I posted that the distribution might be bimodal. A large peak for the losers, and another smaller one for the others. And of course, that holds for all levels of education - I've known some highly educated folks that I would consider to be failures in terms of their careers and economic situation. But on average more education = more success, at least economically.
Yeah, but what I'm saying is that people who have a lot of education only have it because they are motivated.
It's like the "chicken or the egg" thing. Education does not create motivation, motivation creates education.
And education is the by-product of motivation. Successful people with education got there because of their motivation, not their education, but they needed the education to get to that position (you cannot be a surgeon with no education). The ultimate driving force is motivation is what I'm saying.
Education itself does not work miracles. It's the motivation of the people who aquired the education. Education is just a tool to get where you need to be.