Anyone else lonely as hell?

[Naer]

I was thinking about joining a table tennis club. Will I be able to smash someone there? Do girls even pingpong?

 

[Majcric]

tried doing the plenty of fish .com thing and havent' gotten a single reply yet.

I'm not even sure if its real website because of all the premium purchases.

I hate misleading websites.

Plentyoffish is most definitely real. Premium memberships are unnecessary I went out with a chick off of there a week ago. And have obtained several numbers. Just got a new one tonight. It's very important to post Pictures of yourself as they hardly read profiles.

Grab some alcohol, lower your standards some, and start fishing.

 

[John Connor]

Lower your standards? Real classy chicks I'd say....

 

[Red Squirrel]

No, but I'm introvert so I prefer being alone. In fact I try to force myself to socialize because I could easily stay at home for months (if I did not have to work) and be content alone. That's probably not healthy.

 

[Fenixgoon]

unfortunately, yes. happens from time to time.

 

[Mai72]

I was thinking about joining a table tennis club. Will I be able to smash someone there? Do girls even pingpong?

lol

 

[Mai72]

Go to the bars.

 

[Fritzo]

Dude just go party at a bar or a club and start talking to girls. What's up with this whole internet stuff

I tried that at one point. Got a lot of "how dare you talk to me" looks that was terrible for my self esteem

No, but I'm introvert so I prefer being alone. In fact I try to force myself to socialize because I could easily stay at home for months (if I did not have to work) and be content alone. That's probably not healthy.

My brother!

I have a fear of people in that everyone always needs something from me or is asking me for something, so I tend to avoid people all together.

 

[PricklyPete]

I know there are not many serious posts here, but make friends first. If you are only focused on finding a mate, you will have a much harder time. Join clubs or work at local volunteer charities. Make friends of all different ages. You will meet people through these friends.

 

[z1ggy]

christianmingle.com

 

[Newell Steamer]

Dating sites that have a 'free' route, are usually filled with:
- prostitutes
- transvestites
- transexuals
- scamers
- unemployed people

You may not want a reply,...

 

[Fritzo]

Dating sites that have a 'free' route, are usually filled with:
- prostitutes
- transvestites
- transexuals
- scamers
- unemployed people

You may not want a reply,...

...or DO you :hmm::awe:

 

[BurnItDwn]

I've gone through match.com for a while a long time ago and then used okcupid not quite as long ago. I met / dated a dozen or so womenfolk from those sites. None of them were unemployed, trannies, professionals, or scamers.

They were all fat chicks.


Anyhow, go get yourself a fat chick.

Edit: ohh, and for the record, my fiancee who I've been dating now for like ... the last 4 years happens to be the last one I met on okcupid.

 

[KeithTalent]

Nope. I prefer being on my own so I never get lonely.

KT

 

[dank69]

Why do you think God invented hookers?

 

[BurnItDwn]

Nope. I prefer being on my own so I never get lonely.

KT

You just haven't experienced enough solitude.

At some point, there is such a thing as too much solitude...

 

[KeithTalent]

You just haven't experienced enough solitude.

At some point, there is such a thing as too much solitude...

I disagree; I can never get enough solitude.

KT

 

[HamburgerBoy]

tbh I find that the longer I'm away from people, the easier it is to appreciate solitude. People start talking about clubbing and whatnot and ask me if I do? Lonely depression. The important thing is to think of social interactions as something unattainable, something that you can admire but know you'll never have, like a poor person lurking ATOT admiring all the amazingly successful people and their valuable material possessions, maybe envious but still complacent to fill out the lower rungs of society.

 

[zoiks]

I did the match.com a long time ago. It did work. But things worked out different for me in the end.

 

[zoiks]

BTW OP. I think the online stuff is stupid. It works for some people but doesn't for a lot more.
I suggest joining a singles group on meetup.com where you can go and have fun doing activities with other people your age. I did that and when I became a regular, I met this girl who later became my wife. Life couldn't be better with a little one on the way.
Just for clarity, I did join numerous online sites for dating but sifting through hundreds of people sucked just to find out the one you connected with, you didn't.

 

[BurnItDwn]

I disagree; I can never get enough solitude.

KT

Imagine being a trapper in the late 1700s or early 1800s, or imagine being a hunter/trapper in greenland in the early 1900s ...

you spend months at a time working the woods. Sometimes you may go over a year without seeing another person.

There is such a thing as too much solitude. However I realize that you can never get enough of it due to having a job / internet connection / living modern life I feel that way too, especially since whenever I want to wind down and relax in front of a book, the fiancee always comes and bothers me to tell me about her day or find out what kind of dinner I want....

 

[KeithTalent]

Imagine being a trapper in the late 1700s or early 1800s, or imagine being a hunter/trapper in greenland in the early 1900s ...

you spend months at a time working the woods. Sometimes you may go over a year without seeing another person.

There is such a thing as too much solitude. However I realize that you can never get enough of it due to having a job / internet connection / living modern life I feel that way too, especially since whenever I want to wind down and relax in front of a book, the fiancee always comes and bothers me to tell me about her day or find out what kind of dinner I want....

Very true, but the likelihood of me becoming an 18th century trapper is what, 10% at most? So as things are now, it's hard to get enough alone time.

KT

 

[lozina]

I just want a hot fuck buddy. Is that too much to ask for?

 

[surfsatwerk]

I just want a hot fuck buddy. Is that too much to ask for?

yes

 

[Red Squirrel]

I just want a hot fuck buddy. Is that too much to ask for?

They make inflatable products for that.