Kind of long, but:
What do you like when traveling? Big cites or the rural small old towns? By the ocean/sea shore or mountains?
Do you have a preference for traveling? Hopping from city to city via airplanes, or train & bus?
Do you pack light or go heavy?
I lived & worked in Europe for about 8 years. I lived in London, Berlin and Paris. I did an awful lot of traveling; I had a camper van and drove from the Nordic countries all the way to the Magreb (North Africa ? Morocco etc).
I?ve been to Italy twice recently, about 2005 & 2003. I flew into Milan one time, Rome the other.
Personally, I prefer to travel light, avoid airports and would rather take trains or buses.
You?ll find that the train stations are generally in the center of cities such as Rome or Paris, while the airports are located outside. Just getting to or from them requires a train ride or cab fare.
I prefer the trains; you get to see the countryside etc. You can pack your own food. Get a reserved private cabin if possible. Sometimes when feasible I?ll take the night train, say get on about 10 PM and arrive somewhere else in the morning. Just get a sleeper cabin. That way it seems like you make full use of your time, and don?t waste valuable vacation time in route or waiting around at airports (gawd, I hate airports).
Car rental struck me as expensive in Italy, gas too. If your looking into it, be sure they tell you about all the taxes and surcharges so you aren?t surprised by the final bill.
When you?re in a big city, I prefer to travel around by bus. You can use bus routes to tour a city, it?s very inexpensive. Look into multi day passes, easy and saves $. While you?re getting around by bus you might a part of the city that looks interesting, either hop off or make a note to circle back later and visit.
In Europe, things are bit more condensed than here. I mean that there are lots of cool places not far from one to the other. 2 weeks in a god amount of time, but don?t expect to see everything. I prefer to take my time and enjoy myself, rather than rushing around to ?touch all the bases?. I suggest you do likewise.
Try not to stick out like an American tourist. We?re about as bad as Germans when it comes to being obnoxious. Worse, we?re pretty stupid and easy prey. Don?t talk real loudly (won?t draw so much attention); try to find clothing like everybody else. You?ll blend better.
Violence doesn?t really exist; thieving can be common. Don?t leave baggage etc unattended, and pickpockets are fairly common. As is ?bag snatching? (purse, cameras etc.) Just be alert, that?s probably the biggest most effective deterrent.
Since you?ve never been there, pick up a travel book on Italy. That will you help identify places you want to see. Might need to prioritize them, and think about proximity. Obviously it?s stupid to start in Rome (Southern Italy) then go to Milan, then back down South to Sorrento/Naples. You?ll also get info on restaurants/food/prices etc for each location.
For restaurants/food, I?d stay away from tourist spots. They know you?ll never be coming back so the food might suck, the service may be lousy and the prices high. They don?t care; they don?t depend on repeat business.
Look instead for places where the locals eat. Watch the business lunch crowd, if the locals go there, you?ll have a better chance of finding good places with good authentic fresh food and reasonable prices etc.
Don?t be afraid to picnic either. Grab a loaf of fresh bread from a bakery, a hunk of cheese and litre bottle of wine. Hang out in interesting/pretty place in good weather and eat lunch etc.
Language. Definitely try to speak some Italian. A little bit goes a long way. Generally, if they see you?re making an effort to speak their language, they?ll make an effort to help and maybe try to speak English. If you don?t want to be embarrassed trying to speak their language, why should they bother to speak yours?
Pick up some materials to help you learn some of the language, might wanna carry some of them with you on the trip to study up at night or on the train/airplane.
I use a book of verbs with the various conjugations. Also some tapes etc for pronunciation.
Also take an English>Italian, Italian>English dictionary. You can look up the English word to see the Italian one, and if you?re trying to communicate with them, they use it to look up the Italian word and show you the English counterpart.
Pick some useful phrases before and get those down before leaving (take crip notes with you to refer to). Like ?Where is __?, ?how much does it cost?? ?excuse me, can you help me please?, ?enter?. ?Exit", ?forbidden? (signs you might see) etc.
Learn some food ?words too?. I can you from experience it can be a bitch when no one at the restaurant speaks your language, and you don?t speak theirs. You?ll end up just pointing an unknown stuff listed in the menu hoping you didn?t chose 3 desserts etc. So learn ?a menu please? then the words for beef, chick, fish, pork, etc.
If you?re asking a price and don?t understand, ask them to write it down (learn that phrase) and carry a little notepad and pencil.
My remarks on places:
Milan, mostly a big industrial town. Not a favorite, but have family that lives there. But I understand Lake Cuomo has some nice places around it.
Florence. I liked it. Great museums and food etc. Also some other good small popular little towns around that area.
Venice. Not a favorite, too touristy, Food expensive and mostly crappy. But still it has some neat parts. Etc.
Rome, my favorite. I like it better than Paris. People are friendly, lots to see and do. Definitely walk around a lot near the center, surprises around every corner. Food can be very good.
Naples Area. Another favorite. Sorrento is very pretty; it?s on a cliff overlooking the sea. I stayed in an apartment near The American Club. Great spot IMO. You can take a ferry to Capri and another island. Also take the bus ride down to Amalfi. It?s the cheapest, most scenic thrill ride I?ve ever seen. You travel along a cliff road, passing by many very cool little villages built on the cliffs, and the view freaks people out. You might see some villages you want to stay at along that route. Naples itself is big, kind of dirty etc. I just use it as a ?pass-through? (bus/train stations) but it has cool parts too. You?ll find a ton of stuff in that area, Mt Pompeii, the Herculaneum etc.
If it were me, I?d fly into Rome and plan a trip around there and Southern Italy.
BTW: train routes etc are all on the Internet Here?s the train schedule etc
http://www.trenitalia.com/en/index.html
Don?t be afraid to google for info etc on various regions. They?ve got all kinds of tourist/travel info available.
LMK if you have any questions.
Fern