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While this post is obvious in intent...
I wish to say... fuck censoring what your kids have access to.
And I say this knowing full well the shenanigans I got into on the web when I was young. And I did so even when my parents were home, and the computer was in the dining room, which was right next to the living room.
Of course, if the intent is to raise a child completely ignorant of what is out there in the world, subscribes to religious texts with such strong faith that they often respond "well god must want me to do this/this must have meant god didn't want me going through with this."
The big concept: don't censor their usage, merely control the amount of time they are allowed access, period.
There is some research pointing to a correlation between the amount of time youths spend on the internet and their likelihood to develop social problems and what they call "internet addiction." Again, I say this as someone who is quite likely diagnosable "addicted to internet."
And I don't even want to see any of the non-biased research for pornography. I've read quick quips from extremely religion-biased research, and that just doesn't cut it for research.
But my point? Don't let kids sit on the internet for most of their hours awake, and stay up late on them. They'll bitch and moan but if they discover the reason as they mature, they might appreciate it.
Probably the most effective filter: Take computer out of bedroom and put it in plain view in the living room.
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Let me guess, you're 22 and have no kids.
This is the problem with posting parenting questions on AT, where I would be surprised if not most are porn addicts and the vast majority don't even have kids. Because of responses like this from kids about how to raise kids.While this post is obvious in intent...
I wish to say... fuck censoring what your kids have access to.
And I say this knowing full well the shenanigans I got into on the web when I was young. And I did so even when my parents were home, and the computer was in the dining room, which was right next to the living room.
Of course, if the intent is to raise a child completely ignorant of what is out there in the world, subscribes to religious texts with such strong faith that they often respond "well god must want me to do this/this must have meant god didn't want me going through with this."
The big concept: don't censor their usage, merely control the amount of time they are allowed access, period.
There is some research pointing to a correlation between the amount of time youths spend on the internet and their likelihood to develop social problems and what they call "internet addiction." Again, I say this as someone who is quite likely diagnosable "addicted to internet."
And I don't even want to see any of the non-biased research for pornography. I've read quick quips from extremely religion-biased research, and that just doesn't cut it for research.
But my point? Don't let kids sit on the internet for most of their hours awake, and stay up late on them. They'll bitch and moan but if they discover the reason as they mature, they might appreciate it.
That is why he created this thread, Einstein.I know the cheapest and most effective tool - adult supervision. Stop using the TV/computer as a babysitter and do some fucking parenting.
And when your kids were 12 was the internet full of porn? Certainly not to the extent it is now. Back then if nothing else you had to really try to get it.I'm 47 with 2 grown kids and never considered filtering and they had computers in their rooms
And when your kids were 12 was the internet full of porn? Certainly not to the extent it is now. Back then if nothing else you had to really try to get it.
Great post, thanks!lol@ the fools in this thread. Internet filtering is pointless and only delays the inevitable. You will be wasting your time and money on your foolish attempt to stop what can't be stopped. It seems to me that parents have absolutely no common sense when it comes to dealing with children. Whenever someone suggests something that goes against their foolish views they simply cry "but, but I'm a parent, I know whats best! Do you have any kids?!!" lol how foolish. Everyone knows this.
lol@ the fools in this thread. Internet filtering is pointless and only delays the inevitable. You will be wasting your time and money on your foolish attempt to stop what can't be stopped. It seems to me that parents have absolutely no common sense when it comes to dealing with children. Whenever someone suggests something that goes against their foolish views they simply cry "but, but I'm a parent, I know whats best! Do you have any kids?!!" lol how foolish. Everyone knows this.
OpenDNS is the easiest way to implement
Besides parental software another thing you can do is to place the pc in a common area of the home. Kid+pc in bedroom can lead to trouble.