That was interesting. GF calls yesterday and says she needs to talk to me. She shows up, we sit down, she tells me that she's been thinking about this week and had to come out. She told me she's been going clubbing the last year or so (only 8-9). Yea, not that bad at all but then we had a deal where she doesn't go clubbing (because I don't like the scene) and I don't hit up the strip clubs (obvious why she doesn't like it).
So talk talk, blah blah and at one point I'm laughing and say is that all? Then it continues to where she's still young, wants to have fun without having something holding her back. I ask her if she's slept with other guys and she says no, just dance with random people.
I asked her how she'd feel if I danced with random girls, she doesn't like it. THen I tell her I can't be in that kind of relationship and that she has a choice to make:
Spend the night and then proceed through the weekend together, or get up and I'll walk her to her car.
She's crying and just sits there, telling me she doesn't know what to do. I tell her I love her and all that good stuff, but she has to do what she thinks will make her happier. She gets to the door, we have a nice long hug, she leaves. I cry, call up friends who proceed to show up with booze.
On the plus side, its a windy as hell day today in Sacramento with fires, so I had an excuse when I came to the office of why my eyes were all red and bloodshot (ash).
Cliffs:
Break up with gf
Go to wizz after drink fest
Wake up on bathroom floor by knocking on door and ("why the fvck is the bathroom locked, and where's Kelvrick")
EDIT: Not really asking advice, just had to vent considering I'm at the office now and can't just bawl to my friends. I don't wanna bring my personal life into my professional life.
So talk talk, blah blah and at one point I'm laughing and say is that all? Then it continues to where she's still young, wants to have fun without having something holding her back. I ask her if she's slept with other guys and she says no, just dance with random people.
I asked her how she'd feel if I danced with random girls, she doesn't like it. THen I tell her I can't be in that kind of relationship and that she has a choice to make:
Spend the night and then proceed through the weekend together, or get up and I'll walk her to her car.
She's crying and just sits there, telling me she doesn't know what to do. I tell her I love her and all that good stuff, but she has to do what she thinks will make her happier. She gets to the door, we have a nice long hug, she leaves. I cry, call up friends who proceed to show up with booze.
On the plus side, its a windy as hell day today in Sacramento with fires, so I had an excuse when I came to the office of why my eyes were all red and bloodshot (ash).
Cliffs:
Break up with gf
Go to wizz after drink fest
Wake up on bathroom floor by knocking on door and ("why the fvck is the bathroom locked, and where's Kelvrick")
EDIT: Not really asking advice, just had to vent considering I'm at the office now and can't just bawl to my friends. I don't wanna bring my personal life into my professional life.
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