Anonymous outs alleged Amanda Todd bully

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SphinxnihpS

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amanda todd, 15, killed herself recently after a couple years of bullying by one person in particular. Supposedly he talked into her showing her boobs on camera, which he then used against her relentlessly, including posting the pic for all her friends to see on facebook.

She tells her heartbreaking story here, 1 month before committing suicide.

Today anonymous outed the alleged cyber bully on pastebin.com. :thumbsup:

story

if this is the cyber assailant, he deserves what he's going to get for this exposure, ie life destroyed. :mad:

That's a good one.
 
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BlitzPuppet

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Guys chill the fuck out.

Do you not realize that this is common?


Okay. So everyone should just accept that he drove a kid to suicide by harassing her over the course of a few years? Yeah...good point!

Seriously, hardly anything you post EVER makes any sense nor does it apply to the subject at hand.

For the love of god put some thought in your post while you add it....it's not all about postcount.
 

jagec

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There is some irony in Anonymous exacting "justice" on some cyberbully by, well, cyberbullying him.
 

Saint Nick

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Okay. So everyone should just accept that he drove a kid to suicide by harassing her over the course of a few years? Yeah...good point!

Seriously, hardly anything you post EVER makes any sense nor does it apply to the subject at hand.

For the love of god put some thought in your post while you add it....it's not all about postcount.
Pretty much. Instead of spending his time doing homework, hanging with friends, and chasing girls, he posts this drivel.
 

akahoovy

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Nice, someone who said she deserved to die lost their job after someone found out their identity:

http://updatednews.ca/2012/10/16/negative-amanda-todd-post-costs-man-his-job/

I wonder how she did it, since they said it was an anonymous comment.

He didn't say she deserved to die, he said about time. I'm assuming because she attempted suicide before and holds a similar view to VulgarDisplay.

Do you think we should figure out who VulgarDisplay is and get him fired and humiliated for his point of view on suicide? I don't agree with him, but hot damn this is crazy.
 

sixone

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He didn't say she deserved to die, he said about time. I'm assuming because she attempted suicide before and holds a similar view to VulgarDisplay.

Do you think we should figure out who VulgarDisplay is and get him fired and humiliated for his point of view on suicide? I don't agree with him, but hot damn this is crazy.

There is no defense for what the guy said, much less where he said it. He's welcome to have whatever douchey views he wants, and he's welcome to express them on the intarwebs. But posting them on a memorial site is no different than those asshats who picket military funerals.
 

HeXen

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what i don't get though, is how this one person caused all her school friends to dislike and bully her too?
she said she ate alone at lunch, got beat up..etc, etc. The bullying followed her when they moved?.....how the heck does that happen?

What i also wonder is what did her parents/school and authorties do during all this?...well obviously not enough or nothing but surely after her first attempt at suicide, she would have been put into some kind of mental facility?

So the guy harrassed here only online? did she not know how to delete facebook/ignore or even not use the stupid internet?. i'm obviously missing something but seems like a weird situation to me. So he had a pic of her boobs, big deal..how does that lead others to beat her up?
 

T_Yamamoto

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Okay. So everyone should just accept that he drove a kid to suicide by harassing her over the course of a few years? Yeah...good point!

Seriously, hardly anything you post EVER makes any sense nor does it apply to the subject at hand.

For the love of god put some thought in your post while you add it....it's not all about postcount.

This shit isnt the first time this has occured. Its the first time its blown up





Pretty much. Instead of spending his time doing homework, hanging with friends, and chasing girls, he posts this drivel.


today was PSAT. 1) stay in a class for 4 hours and watch movies. 2) classes were 29minutes long and teachers couldn't teach so they put on a movie


OH NO, you just didn't tell all of ATOT to chill out did you? Dude, you can't even keep it together over pokemon.

I think I did
 

VulgarDisplay

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Would your tune be different if this happened to your daughter?

I wouldn't be such a terrible parent that I was oblivious to the fact that something was wrong with my child. My daughter will also know that she can come to me if she does something stupid, and I will fix it for her.

So maybe my tune would be different, but no progeny of mine will be so weak that they contemplate suicide and don't ask for the help of their parents.

I wasn't necessarily part of the in crowd growing up, and while I wasn't bullied an extreme amount I was made fun of because I was different than everyone else in my small town. If you have olive skin and dark curly hair in a small all white community you will get made fun of constantly, and I did (I'm actually white...) Instead of taking the easy route and offing myself I did what any sane person would and toughed it out.

Now reading through this I am led to believe that this 11-15 year old girl was actually allowed by her parents to have a freaking facebook? Probably the same parents that allow her to dress up like a little prostitute and go out in public, and not expect her to receive negative attention from dirty old scumbags. I guess I do feel sorry for her now because she was failed utterly by her parents. I take back everything I said before because if anyone deserves blame in this whole ordeal it's not her, or the guy who harassed her. It's her parents.
 

alkemyst

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what i don't get though, is how this one person caused all her school friends to dislike and bully her too?
she said she ate alone at lunch, got beat up..etc, etc. The bullying followed her when they moved?.....how the heck does that happen?

What i also wonder is what did her parents/school and authorties do during all this?...well obviously not enough or nothing but surely after her first attempt at suicide, she would have been put into some kind of mental facility?

So the guy harrassed here only online? did she not know how to delete facebook/ignore or even not use the stupid internet?. i'm obviously missing something but seems like a weird situation to me. So he had a pic of her boobs, big deal..how does that lead others to beat her up?

I don't think you understand what happens in a mob mentality. Hell look at half the shit that goes on here by those that try to hide their identities here...and these guys have to stick in the rules of the board.

This wasn't just her facebook, it was shared with everyone they thought she would know and/or that just went to her schools.

Another girl beat her up because she was with her boyfriend...that wasn't the only beating she took though. The media is focused on the one guy that blackmailed her and the one chick whose boyfriend she cheated with.
 

alkemyst

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I wouldn't be such a terrible parent that I was oblivious to the fact that something was wrong with my child. My daughter will also know that she can come to me if she does something stupid, and I will fix it for her.

So maybe my tune would be different, but no progeny of mine will be so weak that they contemplate suicide and don't ask for the help of their parents.

I wasn't necessarily part of the in crowd growing up, and while I wasn't bullied an extreme amount I was made fun of because I was different than everyone else in my small town. If you have olive skin and dark curly hair in a small all white community you will get made fun of constantly, and I did (I'm actually white...) Instead of taking the easy route and offing myself I did what any sane person would and toughed it out.

Now reading through this I am led to believe that this 11-15 year old girl was actually allowed by her parents to have a freaking facebook? Probably the same parents that allow her to dress up like a little prostitute and go out in public, and not expect her to receive negative attention from dirty old scumbags. I guess I do feel sorry for her now because she was failed utterly by her parents. I take back everything I said before because if anyone deserves blame in this whole ordeal it's not her, or the guy who harassed her. It's her parents.

No dude, her parents tried. Even if SHE didn't have the facebook, her classmates did.

I hope some adult doesn't view your children of the future with your "survival of the fittest" beliefs.
 

HamburgerBoy

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I wouldn't be such a terrible parent that I was oblivious to the fact that something was wrong with my child. My daughter will also know that she can come to me if she does something stupid, and I will fix it for her.

So maybe my tune would be different, but no progeny of mine will be so weak that they contemplate suicide and don't ask for the help of their parents.

I wasn't necessarily part of the in crowd growing up, and while I wasn't bullied an extreme amount I was made fun of because I was different than everyone else in my small town. If you have olive skin and dark curly hair in a small all white community you will get made fun of constantly, and I did (I'm actually white...) Instead of taking the easy route and offing myself I did what any sane person would and toughed it out.

Now reading through this I am led to believe that this 11-15 year old girl was actually allowed by her parents to have a freaking facebook? Probably the same parents that allow her to dress up like a little prostitute and go out in public, and not expect her to receive negative attention from dirty old scumbags. I guess I do feel sorry for her now because she was failed utterly by her parents. I take back everything I said before because if anyone deserves blame in this whole ordeal it's not her, or the guy who harassed her. It's her parents.

I'm getting a mature-14-year-old-that-hates-his-peers vibe from his post. I know that when I was 11-15 I celebrated the deaths of my less-responsible peers all the time. "Those 10 year olds were allowed to cross the street unsupervised? No wonder they were killed! I always looked both ways when I was 10. Fucken irresponsible kids and the parents that raise 'em!" That said, I never would have blamed any kid for committing suicide over bullying. Somehow this 14 year old is the moral deviant and the 30 year old is just another guy, amirite?
 

VulgarDisplay

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I'm getting a mature-14-year-old-that-hates-his-peers vibe from his post. I know that when I was 11-15 I celebrated the deaths of my less-responsible peers all the time. "Those 10 year olds were allowed to cross the street unsupervised? No wonder they were killed! I always looked both ways when I was 10. Fucken irresponsible kids and the parents that raise 'em!" That said, I never would have blamed any kid for committing suicide over bullying. Somehow this 14 year old is the moral deviant and the 30 year old is just another guy, amirite?

At what point did I defend or praise the 30 year old man involved in this?

Cliff notes version of everything I have said: Suicide is the selfish person's way out of problems, and her parents failed her on so many levels.
 

HamburgerBoy

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At what point did I defend or praise the 30 year old man involved in this?

Cliff notes version of everything I have said: Suicide is the selfish person's way out of problems, and her parents failed her on so many levels.

Directly, nowhere. That in a thread about the ousting of the 30 year old you instead laugh at the victim's suicide, accuse her of dressing like a prostitute, calling her a "selfish little bitch", etcetc without providing a single comment on the 30 year old is enough for me to assume with whom you have more sympathy.

I'd like to see what argument you have to support that killing yourself is more selfish than encouraging others to kill themselves for ones own personal pleasure.
 

sandorski

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I wouldn't be such a terrible parent that I was oblivious to the fact that something was wrong with my child. My daughter will also know that she can come to me if she does something stupid, and I will fix it for her.

So maybe my tune would be different, but no progeny of mine will be so weak that they contemplate suicide and don't ask for the help of their parents.

I wasn't necessarily part of the in crowd growing up, and while I wasn't bullied an extreme amount I was made fun of because I was different than everyone else in my small town. If you have olive skin and dark curly hair in a small all white community you will get made fun of constantly, and I did (I'm actually white...) Instead of taking the easy route and offing myself I did what any sane person would and toughed it out.

Now reading through this I am led to believe that this 11-15 year old girl was actually allowed by her parents to have a freaking facebook? Probably the same parents that allow her to dress up like a little prostitute and go out in public, and not expect her to receive negative attention from dirty old scumbags. I guess I do feel sorry for her now because she was failed utterly by her parents. I take back everything I said before because if anyone deserves blame in this whole ordeal it's not her, or the guy who harassed her. It's her parents.

You have no way of knowing this. Fail.
 

JackBurton

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Way to go Anonymous!! Unleash hell on this motherfucker! Now he'll see what's it's like to be tormented!!
 

JackBurton

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I wouldn't be such a terrible parent that I was oblivious to the fact that something was wrong with my child. My daughter will also know that she can come to me if she does something stupid, and I will fix it for her.

So maybe my tune would be different, but no progeny of mine will be so weak that they contemplate suicide and don't ask for the help of their parents.

I wasn't necessarily part of the in crowd growing up, and while I wasn't bullied an extreme amount I was made fun of because I was different than everyone else in my small town. If you have olive skin and dark curly hair in a small all white community you will get made fun of constantly, and I did (I'm actually white...) Instead of taking the easy route and offing myself I did what any sane person would and toughed it out.

Now reading through this I am led to believe that this 11-15 year old girl was actually allowed by her parents to have a freaking facebook? Probably the same parents that allow her to dress up like a little prostitute and go out in public, and not expect her to receive negative attention from dirty old scumbags. I guess I do feel sorry for her now because she was failed utterly by her parents. I take back everything I said before because if anyone deserves blame in this whole ordeal it's not her, or the guy who harassed her. It's her parents.

You are worthless.
 

VulgarDisplay

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Directly, nowhere. That in a thread about the ousting of the 30 year old you instead laugh at the victim's suicide, accuse her of dressing like a prostitute, calling her a "selfish little bitch", etcetc without providing a single comment on the 30 year old is enough for me to assume with whom you have more sympathy.

I'd like to see what argument you have to support that killing yourself is more selfish than encouraging others to kill themselves for ones own personal pleasure.

Did I say that the people making this girl miserable were not selfish? You guys can infer whatever made up crap you want to about the post I made but the fact remains that I never praised the people who bullied her.

It will make your life much easier if you just realize that opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one, and they all stink.