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doesnt really matter to me. STD free is a must...also, I dont want to hear about it. Keep it to yourself and its all good.
 

Howard

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It doesn't matter. What matters is (1) she's free of STDs, and (2) she's not emotionally dysfunctional. If she's had sex with lots of guys for the simple reason that she loves sex, well then, more power to her. Women are allowed to enjoy sex for its own sake, you know.
And a Lazarus Long quote to boot! You are a model human!

:D

A :beer: for you! (For approving of Lazarus Long!)
I wish I could be like him (or Woodrow Wilson, whatever). :)
 

Descartes

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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I like a fairly sexually conservative woman who is emotionally liberated. In other words, I think it's great if she's willing to try new things; however, not so much if she's willing to try it with everyone. I esteem to the same.
 

Vette73

Lifer
Jul 5, 2000
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If she can count the number of guys on one hand and is NOT over 30, then that OK. After 30 I am not sure, I am in my late 20's so have not even thought about 30+ women.

And to the DS comment, I know a lot of women that will not date a guy if he has slept around also. So I think the Double part of the DS is starting to wear out, as NOW women are kinda holding men to the same standard, which is good.
 

TekChik

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Jan 15, 2003
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WOW...i'm pleasantly surprised by you guys today...

first - actual GOOD advice in a YAGT and now this!

good answers, boys ;)
(for the most part...)

and experience IS good :p
 

Michael

Elite member
Nov 19, 1999
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I've never cared except if it was zero before me. Then I only cared because then I wouldn't do it without being in love. Otherwise, I care more about her than and who she is.

Michael
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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6-10 is fine in my book... she should definitely be experienced so I don't have to teach her technique... plus by 6-10 she should know what she wants sexually and not be scared to go for it (i.e. Jenny McCarthy).
 

Red Dawn

Elite Member
Jun 4, 2001
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It wouldn't matter because I would never ask nor would I tell. As long as I was the only one while we are together then everyting is cool. I'm not one to get hung up about anothers past as long as they weren't some sort of Serial Killer
 

Winchester

Diamond Member
Jan 21, 2003
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Originally posted by: boyRacer
eleventy billion

This always catches me off guard, LMAO!

BTW: I say 0,
1.) Religion
2.) they need to care enough for themselves and for their future spouse to not go sleeping around
3.) discipline, not just giving in to everything as soon as you want it. (wedding day/night is meant to be special, not just an ordinary friday night)
4.) trust and faithfulness

 

Red Dawn

Elite Member
Jun 4, 2001
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Originally posted by: Winchester
Originally posted by: boyRacer
eleventy billion

This always catches me off guard, LMAO!

BTW: I say 0,
1.) Religion
2.) they need to care enough for themselves and for their future spouse to not go sleeping around
3.) discipline, not just giving in to everything as soon as you want it. (wedding day/night is meant to be special, not just an ordinary friday night)
4.) trust and faithfulness

5.) Being sexually repressed due to Religious Hypocracy..Priceless

So I guess you aren't into Premarital Sex, even with a Fiance. I sure hope before you tie the knot that you show her your member so she knows she's not going to be saddled for life (more like a few years) with some wanker who has an "Inky Dink"
 

Anubis

No Lifer
Aug 31, 2001
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tbqhwy.com
Originally posted by: Winchester
Originally posted by: boyRacer
eleventy billion

This always catches me off guard, LMAO!

BTW: I say 0,
1.) Religion
2.) they need to care enough for themselves and for their future spouse to not go sleeping around
3.) discipline, not just giving in to everything as soon as you want it. (wedding day/night is meant to be special, not just an ordinary friday night)
4.) trust and faithfulness

so you only wanna date virigins? ive done that and its not fun

1) has nothing to do with it. not everyone is religious and even thoes that are arnt devout
2) sleeping around and haveing had sex with more then 0 peopel are compleatly different
3) some peopel like sex, whoes to say when it has to happen
4) whats this have to do with it?
 

Descartes

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Winchester
Originally posted by: boyRacer
eleventy billion

This always catches me off guard, LMAO!

BTW: I say 0,
1.) Religion
2.) they need to care enough for themselves and for their future spouse to not go sleeping around
3.) discipline, not just giving in to everything as soon as you want it. (wedding day/night is meant to be special, not just an ordinary friday night)
4.) trust and faithfulness

5.) Being sexually repressed due to Religious Hypocracy..Priceless

So I guess you aren't into Premarital Sex, even with a Fiance. I sure hope before you tie the knot that you show her your member so she knows she's not going to be saddled for life (more like a few years) with some wanker who has an "Inky Dink"

I'm not certain how his beliefs are indicative of a hypocrisy, but you have to at least somewhat appreciate the idea that sex is more than an undulating pelvic motion with an emotionally decoupled participant.
 

lokiju

Lifer
May 29, 2003
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5
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It doesn't matter to me but as long as she's STD free and I don't have to know about each and every one of her past expereinces, then I really couldn't care less.
 

djheater

Lifer
Mar 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: Descartes

you have to at least somewhat appreciate the idea that sex is more than an undulating pelvic motion with an emotionally decoupled participant.


It's as simple as saying, not necessarily.
 

mpitts

Lifer
Jun 9, 2000
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It doesn't matter.

And all of you guys who think that it does will be kicking yourself later in life becuase you got so hung up on how many guys a girl had been with before you.
 

imported_Tomato

Diamond Member
Sep 11, 2002
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It doesn't matter. What matters is (1) she's free of STDs, and (2) she's not emotionally dysfunctional. If she's had sex with lots of guys for the simple reason that she loves sex, well then, more power to her. Women are allowed to enjoy sex for its own sake, you know.
i think i'm in love :lips:

I'll second that... :):beer:
 

BoberFett

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Some guys want to belive like they're exploring uncharted territory with a woman. Around here that's especially true because, well, they've never charted anything at all before. If a woman has been with one other guy, she's still way ahead of most people around here and these guys don't want to be less experienced than their woman.
 

tm37

Lifer
Jan 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It doesn't matter. What matters is (1) she's free of STDs, and (2) she's not emotionally dysfunctional. If she's had sex with lots of guys for the simple reason that she loves sex, well then, more power to her. Women are allowed to enjoy sex for its own sake, you know.

No woman I have ever had sex with enjoyed it.