I ended up choosing the Amex Hilton Aspire over the Amex Platinum. This whole point of this was to get some benefits and earn some points that I can actually use for personal travel.
The Aspire annual fee was $100 cheaper than Platinum card...was a Credit Card, rather than a Charge Card. I looked over all the statement credits offered as benefits between hotels and airlines, diamond status (really just free breakfast credits or points bonus at brands without free breakfast), and a free weekend night ($200-400 value) and realized this was the best card. My primary reason for picking this card is that I travel frequently, but fly infrequently due to high ticket fees from my local regional airport. With my family and tons of annual leave, this makes flying impractical right now. I'm rarely in a rush and only 6 hours from the coast...it's just easier to drive most places we frequent. I'm not stuck on airline schedules or dealing with 2 hours preflight, 1 hour flight, 1-2 hour layover, 1 hour flight messes...
I figured that I'll basically break even by getting this card by the benefits at the very least...with $130 of Delta credit, $350 of Hilton Credits, and all the extra points I'll earn from the 14X + 100% Diamond status points match as viable perks I'll actually use.
Thanks for all the info. I reviewed a lot of different cards and was looking hard at this one and the Delta line up of cards. I just think I'll use hotel stays more than I will skymiles at this point in my travel plans. That may change in about 3 years when my kids are little older and we have about another $2k of disposable income a month.