am i too tightfisted?

shopbruin

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i personally think not.

i've always been told to do these things:
1. save your money in case of emergencies and to get the things you want. i've seen my parents pay off their last three cars up front, no financing necessary. they were bought over a span of three years too.

2. keep good track of your finances. i keep an excel spreadsheet of my checking and savings account and correspond it to my statements. is that being anal? more of covering myself, making sure charges come out right, etc.

3. pay off credit cards in full. even if it drains my checking account in half, i'll pay it all off. my credit cards are more like debit cards to me.

4. savings accounts are not meant to be spent except in dire emergency. i'm trying to save up for a car someday and i'm hoping i'll never have to tap that account to pay for my student loans.

5. borrow money? pay it back. asap. set up payment schedule. that way someone doesn't have to hound me about the money i've borrowed. but i've never borrowed money from anyone (well outside of the gov't...) but when i LEND money out to people i expect to be repaid. someday. although reading that thread with the 10k i'm having doubts now. if i ever borrowed money from anyone, i would try to set it up so that i would have enough to pay off my bills and my debts timely each month, even if it means cutting back on some stuff.

6. if i'm going over the bills for the month, i like making sure all the charges are correct. i don't want to pay for some random cable channel i never wanted in the first place.

stop accusing me of being cheap. i'm not being cheap. i'm trying to be financially responsible. i don't like paying 14.99% apr on my credit cards or whatever the hell it is now. just because you've never learned to manage your money and buying random crap that you really don't need means that i'm cheap when i don't wanna pay for dinner again for the 20 millionth consecutive time because you're broke.

btw, i'm 21, in my last year of college, and looking for a job when i graduate in june. i have about 23k in student loans, UNSUBSIDIZED, to pay off when i'm out. good financial habits developed now will hopefully carry over into the future.

/end rant for now.
 

woodie1

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Sounds to me like you have things pretty well under control. Be proud of those standards. They will serve you well.
 

iamwiz82

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Originally posted by: woodie1
Sounds to me like you have things pretty well under control. Be proud of those standards. They will serve you well.

you may have things under control, but are you happy? I spent $5000 on a off road vehicle to toy around with even though we couldnt really afford it and I am more than happy i made that decision. Sure, i could have invested it and made a 10% ROI, but I wanted to have fun. It isnt much fun to look at statements at the end of the quarter. To each, his own.
 

Yossarian

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Originally posted by: freesia39
i personally think not.
2. keep good track of your finances. i keep an excel spreadsheet of my checking and savings account and correspond it to my statements. is that being anal? more of covering myself, making sure charges come out right, etc.

Great idea but Excel sucks. I used to do it like that too until I got a copy of MS Money. A real financial tracking package like Money or Quicken will be a lot better for you. Money automatically downloads my credit card purchases from the bank so I don't even have to type them in, and balancing is just a series of clicks down the transaction list.
 

oLLie

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Originally posted by: LordMaul
I dunno...does it hurt when you buff the pickle?

omglaf2u!


freesia, who are you complaining about up there? Is it a signif. other, or a roomie or somethin? Just curious... :)
 

shopbruin

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Originally posted by: oLLie
Originally posted by: LordMaul
I dunno...does it hurt when you buff the pickle?

omglaf2u!


freesia, who are you complaining about up there? Is it a signif. other, or a roomie or somethin? Just curious... :)

all of the above and more.

some people really suck when it comes to money.

"stop being so cheap!" "well stop trying to waste all the money that i've earned and you obviously haven't!"
 

waggy

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no that sounds good. heck i do all of those myself.

i have been called cheap once or twice..or a thousand times.

But i would rather be cheap then in devt and never able to get out.
 

thomsbrain

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i do all that stuff except for the excel sheet, but i do check over all my bills and account summaries and make sure every purchase checks out once a month.
good job on your habits, you'll need them to get out of that student debt.
 

kt

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Originally posted by: PsychoAndy
Thanks for reminding me. I have to go to war with American Express.

-PAB

I will gladly help with your war with American Express. They put a payment delinquency record on my credit when it was clearly their fault. I got the record wiped out, but I will never forget their delinquency.
 

shopbruin

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: woodie1
Sounds to me like you have things pretty well under control. Be proud of those standards. They will serve you well.

you may have things under control, but are you happy? I spent $5000 on a off road vehicle to toy around with even though we couldnt really afford it and I am more than happy i made that decision. Sure, i could have invested it and made a 10% ROI, but I wanted to have fun. It isnt much fun to look at statements at the end of the quarter. To each, his own.

actually i am pretty darn happy except for the fact some people are determined to make me broke. :(

i'm happy to pay off my credit card statements every month in full because that means i've worked hard enough for everything i've purchased. happy to know that if i want to go buy something i want i can actually look in my checking account "hmm looks like i have enough money" go out and get it and not worry about having to pay any interest because i couldn't pay off my credit card.
 

shopbruin

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Originally posted by: PipBoy
Originally posted by: freesia39
i personally think not.
2. keep good track of your finances. i keep an excel spreadsheet of my checking and savings account and correspond it to my statements. is that being anal? more of covering myself, making sure charges come out right, etc.

Great idea but Excel sucks. I used to do it like that too until I got a copy of MS Money. A real financial tracking package like Money or Quicken will be a lot better for you. Money automatically downloads my credit card purchases from the bank so I don't even have to type them in, and balancing is just a series of clicks down the transaction list.

someday i'll get it. right now all i have is excel and the general office programs. no MS money. it's cool because i've been doing fine with excel.

 

shopbruin

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Originally posted by: Carbonyl
i have about 23k in student loans, UNSUBSIDIZED,

NO

no? more like no choice. the federal government says that in theory my parents could pay for all of my education. doesn't mean that they will. hello loans.
 

Bullhonkie

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Not tightfisted at all in my opinion, I think that's just being smart and knowing where your priorities are. I'm pretty much the same way when it comes to finances, except I use Quicken in addition to Excel, and I watch where all of the money goes (or where it may 'leak out' in the case of cash). I've had a few people call me cheap, but I've had more people ask me how to become more financially responsible, so I don't worry about it too much. :)
 

Zebo

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Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: Carbonyl
i have about 23k in student loans, UNSUBSIDIZED,

NO

no? more like no choice. the federal government says that in theory my parents could pay for all of my education. doesn't mean that they will. hello loans.

1. you could have gone to a cheaper state school and worked for books/rent/tuition

2. you could have gotten a full ride to any school based on superior acedemic/athletic HS performance regardless of your parents wealth

3. you could have joined the reserves and had the govenment pay for your school/room and board


Or any combination of the three but no loans BTW what is unsubsidized? I will say though an education is an investment so it's not like you pissed it away on a new car or anything:)
 

shopbruin

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Originally posted by: Carbonyl
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: Carbonyl
i have about 23k in student loans, UNSUBSIDIZED,

NO

no? more like no choice. the federal government says that in theory my parents could pay for all of my education. doesn't mean that they will. hello loans.

1. you could have gone to a cheaper state school and worked for books/rent/tuition

2. you could have gotten a full ride to any school based on superior acedemic/athletic HS performance regardless of your parents wealth

3. you could have joined the reserves and had the govenment pay for your school/room and board


Or any combination of the three but no loans

1. i do go to a cheaper state school. well i guess i could have gone to a CSU but i go to ucla. CSU's are about 2.5k a year for tuition/books and ucla is a tad under 4k for tuition but a little more after books. i do work, part time, nearly 20 hours a week. i make a measly 7.98 an hour because i work on campus but i've been there over three years... there are no pay raises based on seniority. actually there are hardly ever any raises. i can't necessarily find a better job because i don't have a car down here to do so - good paying jobs are far away and my class schedule doesn't make it very possible for me to find a job a little further out and catch the bus. i've tried it before. also housing in this area is expensive - welcome to the westside of LA, so my expenses just get driven up. i mean i share a two bedroom apt with four people, and my fourth of the rent is 531 a month.

2. i did have superior academic/athletic HS performance but once again, i go to ucla, and there are 20,000 other people with better GPA's/SAT's not to mention the athletes.

3. i could have joined the reserves but parents did not want me to and it wasn't really an option to me in my mind.

i'm not complaining that i have to pay them off because i know i do. it's just a slight hindrance knowing that i'm going to devote a lot of my salary when i'm out to paying them off because i want to be relieved of that debt asap.