It's not your mom it your friends. Parents always do things thier kids don't like...for the most part it's out of love or concern. That's why it's so hard to hate them. If you've got controlling parents, then inform your friends. Say something like"I've got controlling parents". If your frineds can't handle that then your friends aren't so great. If it means that much to you that your friends don't get it. Then leave your parents. Parents will always let kids down, but in the long run, they never let you down...gee that's getting pretty profound, I better stop.