Am I the only one with GF that wants to keep our virginity?

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Hooligan

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I hear you Slique,

2 years and 2 months and no sex. It's not an issue with us because I really care about her and if she wants to wait I don't mind. That goes for me too, in our relationship we don't want sex to become a crutch or anything like that. :)

Song of the moment: Pete Yorn - "Life On a Chain"

-Ben
 

Hammer

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The question you got to ask you girlfriend is: "Why are you putting out yet, teammate?!?". If she responds with "Speak to me like a man, don't be yellin at me like a little girl" then you know you have her.
 

LordMaul

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<< Song of the moment: Pete Yorn - "Life On a Chain"

-Ben
>>



OH GOD NO!!! Don't start!!

At least, don't put a song in bold after every one of your posts, or you'll be tied to a nef stick and whipped with EbonyExperience's "toys"!

:Q
 

JC

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Feb 1, 2000
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If you wanna wait, that's cool....

But to some of us, sex is an important part of a relationship, and your compatibilty needs to be investigated. As one of these people, I wouldn't want to wait until marriage, then
discover during your first time that she doesn't like it. :Q

JC
 

BeefJurky

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<< "Speak to me like a man, don't be yellin at me like a little girl" >>


What?

my first gf didn't want to have sex until marriage and that was just fine with me. i can go either way on that issue, but i lean more towards the "funner" side. and IMO, sex is the ultimate act of comfort and love. i ain't letting any girl see me nekkid if i don't love and trust her with everything i'm made of. i mean..... how close to her teeth is that? gotta have the trust!
 

TheVrolok

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Dec 11, 2000
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I think it's rather intelligent that you guys aren't rushing into anything. It's not like having sex just comes bundled right away with dating. I lost my virginity 2 years ago and I just kinda wish I wouldn't have.. I'm not saying I totally regret, it, at the time I thought I was completely in love, and I still believe I was, I had been dating a girl for over a year.. But now, after all that's happened since we've broken up I just feel that maybe I gave away something too special to someone who may not have been? I mean sure, I'm sure after high school, after we all lose our virginities and get into college sex sorta loses some of its meaning, and you know, it just seems like in today's society sex for pure pleasure is almost all that matters to some people, and it's a shame... I dunno, I'm not ranting anymore :p
 

Danman

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My girlfriend is very religious and wants to wait until marriage. I really don't have a problem with that because I love her that much so I wouldn't care. :)