Am I the only one with GF that wants to keep our virginity?

[Slique7]

Don't feel like typing it all out. Title is self-explanatory. Respond.

Why? because I truly care about her and we have self-respect and dignity.

>Slique

 

[pulse8]

There's already a thread about this, but why does having sex with your partner show a lack of respect? I would think that engaging in the act of making love with someone you do love would be displaying the ultimate in respect for that person and yourself.

 

[gopunk]

dignity? martin luther king had sex... george washington had sex... gandhi had sex... what's this about dignity?

 

Flame bait.

Why don't you fess up and deal with the fact that your gf is a prude.

 

[LukFilm]

<< Am I the only one with GF that wants to keep our virginity? >>



Yes, thank GOD!!!

 

[DDCSpeed]

well. its cool man if she wont want to have sex or its you who dont want to have sex. Just remember that sooner or later you will have sex and she will have sex. She may not have sex with you but definitely sometimes in her life and it is the same for you too.

 

[Slique7]

One could argue that self-respect comes from not easily giving yourself out to everyone you date for sheer physical pleasure.

sorry if I sounded ignorant. but my question still stands.

I just cannot stand bunch of airhead that publically rant and whine about their sex lives. You know what type of ppl I'm talking about.

>Slique

 

[Zenmervolt]

Perhaps it is too much to ask, but can we not just agree that it's not really any more important than what you had for breakfast this morning? It's a choice like any other and each person's reasoning is his own. I need only justify my choices to myself, not to you, not to my parents, not to God, not to anyone.

ZV

 

[Scouzer]

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<< Am I the only one with GF that wants to keep our virginity? >>



Yes, thank GOD!!! >>




hahahahahahaha yeah

 

[pulse8]

You're just trolling.

 

[djheater]

<< You're just trolling. >>



Agreed...

Though I'm interested to hear what HotChic has to say

 

[gopunk]

One could argue that self-respect comes from not easily giving yourself out to everyone you date for sheer physical pleasure.

i suppose, but i prefer to derive my self-respect from succeeding in my endeavors, rather than from denying myself something to which there is no benefit to being denied.

why do people think it's so great to deny themselves things they want? i don't get it. why do you hate yourself so much?

 

[DDCSpeed]

well not having sex does not mean dignity. For all I know, not having sex is normal for a teenager if you are. If you are a teenager then you are not suppose to have sex anyways. If you are not a teenager anymore, kudos for you.

 

[Masas]

its not like you'll never have sex
and my gf and i don't really care...and neither one of us is really pushing for it
i guess it all comes together when it's right

 

[yobarman]

<< You're just trolling >>



i'm guessing sex with someone you care about makes you not care about each other anymore? you are such a retard, just fess up and tell everyone you've never even touched a girl before.

 

[CraigRT]

as per title: No, i have heard of other couples being like that, or not necessarily couples, but either guys or girls who want to keep their virginity.
I don't quite know why, it's not like they're practicing Catholics or anything... *shrugs*

 

[kami]

So any couple who both want to have sex and both consent to have sex have no dignity or respect? You silly little moron you

 

[UberNeuman]

<< Don't feel like typing it all out. >>



Glad to see you "feel" that strongly about it... Why bother asking if you can't type out why you feel strongly about keeping your cherry....

 

[AreaCode707]

<< I just cannot stand bunch of airhead that publically rant and whine about their sex lives >>



Not implying you're an airhead or that you're ranting or whining, but you have just now made your sex life public.

 

[Slique7]

I guess initial my statement sounded bit intrusive.

well let me explain. We've been going out for only 3 months, and we're perfectly happy with each other. And sex is the last thing on my/her mind.
And of course, we'll all have sex sooner or later. I guess my primary reason of posting was 'sex before or after marriage?'

Wow, this just opened a huge can of whopass. Didn't know ppl would be so offended by this. Sorry, wasn't my intention.

>Slique

ps- could someone kindly explain what 'troll' means or "trolling"

 

[DannyLove]

getting tired of all these damn teens here

 

[Random Variable]

<< dignity? martin luther king had sex... george washington had sex... gandhi had sex... what's this about dignity? >>


That's not entirely true. It has been well documented that Martha and George never had sex. And that the father of Martha's children was really George's uncle--Herbie Washington.

 

[CraigRT]

<< getting tired of all these damn teens here >>



I hope you're joking, if not, no one asked you to stay!

 

[PistachioByAzul]

You're probably not. It's good that you've kept yourself above the fray, it's always tempting to forget what you really believe and just do it. The problem with sex is that all too often it becomes the focus of the relationship, obectifying and trivializing it. More so with us men than with women, since we are driven to such a great extent by our need to procreate. Maybe take things completely at her pace, since it's hard for a man to have an objective take on the question of whether or not it's a good idea to get freaky.

 

[xirtam]

I understand, Slique. In the same boat. I think preserving sex for marriage makes marriage more special.