Am I stupid/foolish/insane to decline????

[KEV1N]

I hope you like sloppy seconds!

I think you should save your virginity for that special girl, not necessarily for marriage. If you meet a girl and it feels right, then do it.

And as a side note, you learn through experience. If you want to please a woman, you're gonna have to have been with a woman.

I admire you keeping your virginity, but I don't think you should limit yourself by saying "not until marriage." Marriage is arbitrary, a title. If you love a girl and want to show your affection, what better way than sex? Hehe.

 

[Doggiedog]

Better now doing it as a 23 YO man with a 41 YO woman vs being a 41 YO man and doing it with a 58 YO woman.

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: Bluefront
Egads... you guys are talking like 41 is 101. They're still alive and well at 41. They even know how to do it better than most 21-year-olds. Wait around another 10 years, saving your virginity, and you'll wish you had her phone number again..heh.

What a bunch of wusses on OT....

I think it's more her track record than her age.

I have no problem with people who want to have free sex. I think that's fine. The problem is with STDs and pregnancy.

To each his own, and more power to you.

 

[Ameesh]

Originally posted by: dribgnikcom
Bluefront -

Just because you're a sodomite European, doesen't mean we are.

LOL

 

[Jzero]

Well, you know what they say--when you hump someone, you effectively hump everyone they've ever humped.
I know it's not literal, but I'd have a hard time shaking the mental image of my friend giving it to her...yeesh.
Unless that friend was one of my attractive female friends.
Then I'd make an exception
ehehe

Anyway, she sounds dirty and floppy.
I think you did the right thing bailing out.
If you get seduced by some hot Mrs. Robinson, and not just set up on a proxy sex-date by one of your friends, I'd say go for it.
Under these circumstances?
*shudder*

 

[KEV1N]

And when I shake your hand, I have effectively touched your penis and you have touched mine. We have touched penises by proxy!

Originally posted by: Jzero
Well, you know what they say--when you hump someone, you effectively hump everyone they've ever humped.
I know it's not literal, but I'd have a hard time shaking the mental image of my friend giving it to her...yeesh.
Unless that friend was one of my attractive female friends.
Then I'd make an exception
ehehe

Anyway, she sounds dirty and floppy.
I think you did the right thing bailing out.
If you get seduced by some hot Mrs. Robinson, and not just set up on a proxy sex-date by one of your friends, I'd say go for it.
Under these circumstances?
*shudder*

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: KEV1N
And when I shake your hand, I have effectively touched your penis and you have touched mine. We have touched penises by proxy!

So YOU'RE the twerp that goes around shaking every girl's hand just so you can go back and tell all your buddies she touched your peppy.
Why don't you grow the heck up?

 

[Beau]

Two words that probably describe her more accurately than anything else: Spoiled Goods

I'm sure you did the right thing in saying "no."

 

[Michael1897]

i'd say that since you still have your v-card you did the good thing.
now in my circumstances if she looked goood still then i'd tap it once or twice,
[sh!tbrake]Mrs. Stifler[/sh!tbrake]

 

[Johnlee]

*DING DING DING* Silverpig wins the "Best reply" award imo.

TGG-pass this one up dude, if you really have to, but you best bang the next one. It's your civic duty.

 

[kt]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I personally dont think i have a self esteem problem.. while it does get a bit disheartening to get rejected a 103 times in 1999... (well i will blame it on those nerdy glasses) but still.. a thing that needs to be rectified.

TGG

HOLY JESUS! 103 rejections in a single year? I just have a new found respect for you being to persistent. I haven't had that many rejections (not even anywhere close to it) in my whole life. Just being curious, do you ever ask the girls who rejected you for a reason? Good way to find out what you're doing wrong. You don't necessary have to always agree with them, but at least you'll know why.

 

[Michael1897]

do you go on the mantra taht if you ask enough girls that one will eventually say yes??? if so then keep at it b/c eventually one will say yes
how do you keep up with this or is it just a ballpark figure....

 

[CrazyDe1]

This kinda sh1t really pisses me off. TGG is a badass, everytime someone asks for motorcycle help there he is explaining it for the 100th time. Every motorcycle thread hes sittin there offerin information. Yet chicks won't give him a chance. I have a teacher from industry for m programming class, and hes the nicest guy in the world. Hes cool as hell, really understanding, and a little bit cheesy w/ the humor...but hes a good guy, and again, hes like 45 and still lookin for a chick. The problem is chicks force dudes to be assaholes. Straight up. The cycle just goes on and on. Dudes see that chicks aren't attracted to nice guys, so dudes that are truly awesome become assholes. I have tons of friends who turned into assholes to get chicks, and they they change themselves around chicks and put on a front just becuase thats what teh chicks want. This happens with chicks too. They see that the anorexic slutty girls, no matter how ugly they are get guys because they put out. They ee the fat girls that get guys because they put out. They see that dudes pay attention to chicks that draw attention to themselves. They see that dudes are attracted to idiots like christina aguilera even tho she says like and whoa 5 times in 1 sentence. When I see nice, cute and quiet girls I make an effort to talk to them because there aren't many girls like that. Most of them are loud and annoying and try to draw attention to themselves and do everything they possibly can to try to look good for dudes. I try to make an effort to talk to the nice girls becuase I know theres not many of them left because dudes just want a fI_Ickslut and when you can find a chick whos cute and down to earth that you can just hangout with its rare. It really makes me mad that all these nice innocent girls become sluts to get guys. Give me mandi moore over christina aguilera anyday.

 

[yllus]

Originally posted by: CrazyDe1
The problem is chicks force dudes to be assholes. Straight up. The cycle just goes on and on. Dudes see that chicks aren't attracted to nice guys, so dudes that are truly awesome become assholes.

This is the worst kind of BS - it's the BS you feed yourself and maybe even believe. You can be a confident, outgoing guy without being an asshole. Confident guys can see a girl as just another person and talk with them lightheartedly with playful sarcasm or insults. Would you want to be with someone who treats you as better than themselves and is afraid to say anything that might offend you? Obviously not...

 

[smp]

Principles = dogma = nationalism = bigotry = lame

Dont' close doors for yourself .. doing the right thing can mean different things in different cases .. we are not computers .. if you're familiar with IPchains firewalls .. you know that you set rules (principles) in your firewall rules .. life ain't like that .. life is organic and things change .. one set of rules does not a secure firewall make .. meaning, be prepared to make decisions on the fly, not based on some pre-defined dogma that you have.
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<flames>

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: caramel

Originally posted by: silverpig However, when you're in love, then it can be special, sure....But most of the people who are telling you to wait so it can be special are probably equating sex with love, which IS NOT the case.

This is kind of a contradiction here...most people probably don't want their first time to be trashy, but with someone special. And yes when you're in love with someone, sex is all that more enjoyable.

Man .. my first time was with "someone special" and let me tell you .. I would of rather had a little practice first.

 

[dafatha00]

Girls have cooties!!! EWWWWW :Q

In all seriousness, sex isn't a very big deal IMHO.
For me, there are two scenarios:
1) 41 year old woman is hot or decent with no known diseases. I hit it.
2) 41 year old woman is butt ugly or has diseases. I run.


If you do decide to call her, just be safe.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Dude, if you weren't a virgin, I'd say, without a doubt, hit that thing immediately (it's my goal before I graduate from college, actually to hit some MILFs since horny college chicks are dime a dozen here) -

But since you're a virgin, I'd be so inlined to say a job well done sir - you have preserved your honor, and kept your chasitity (if I was you, I'd get with a hot YOUNG chick and get the deed done, THEN hit that thing. )

 

[Red Dawn]

But since you're a virgin, I'd be so inlined to say a job well done sir

Yeah you saved yourself for that fugly 16 year old sleeze who's as desperate as you are.

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

But since you're a virgin, I'd be so inlined to say a job well done sir

Yeah you saved yourself for that fugly 16 year old sleeze who's as desperate as you are.

Blaaahahahahahaha .. and you're gonna fumble too, cause you'll be all inexperienced and stuff ....

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: bob970

Originally posted by: Scipionix

Originally posted by: bob970 ok.. gettin head is a form of sex.. but i wouldnt say hed lost his virginity from that...

Possibly not, but she would. I think it's funny yet pathetic when girls who have had a dozen guys in their mouths still can convince themselves that they are virgins.

Lol, i dont even wanna get into that... im not a big fan of the oral anyways... i dont like kissin that afterwards.. and kissin really gets girls going.. if yer good anyways

Why do you have to get them going after the fact?

This thread is hillarious .. I was too lazy to read it before, but now I see the true entertainment value .. hah!

 

[Red Dawn]

and you're gonna fumble too

Well it's better to fumble than to dribble

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Scipionix

Originally posted by: p0ntif whack. I'd say you did the right thing. I personally like young girls (i.e. 18-23, I'm 25 btw). And frankly, a woman that came on that strong would be intimidating, and somewhat of a turn off. Desperation turns me off. No fun in the chase there. Just my opinion.

Chasing takes effort. Effort is bad. Sex is good. Sex without effort is better.

Wow :Q
I actually agree with you on something ...

 

[Schadenfreude]

Well,t he odd thing is, some girls believe that they're still virgins as long as they had no VAGINAL sex . .. meaning, oral, erm . . . epidrmal(?), and even *gasp* anal sex is okay!

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Jehovah
Well,t he odd thing is, some girls believe that they're still virgins as long as they had no VAGINAL sex . .. meaning, oral, erm . . . epidrmal(?), and even *gasp* anal sex is okay!

My kind of virgin :|