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Am I still in love with my EX!?!?!? *edit* pic added

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BAH i didn't mess up the link, i just forgot brinkster is lame like that
i did change it though

alkemyst - her opinion of our friendship? that we are friends lol
 
Ended it over to years ago and you still aren't over it? Hmmm.... because I may type something that could be "rude" and I'm in a good mood today I'll just leave it at hmmm....
 
Sorry...

But it's way past time to let go and move on! It's great if you can keep a positive attitude about girls that have dumped you...really, it is! That said, you're doing yourself no good to continue to dwell on her every day. She's way in your past now; time to do something more constructive with your present.

Good luck!
 
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
I only dated 5 women EVER before i got married. I felt like i was in love with all 5 at the time that i dated them and even now really only think of them with fondness, no bitterness.

i'm not sure that we ever "fall out of love" with someone. at least that's how it was with me and my ex's.

i don't currently have ANY contact with any of them and have never made such an attempt since i broke up with them, so i don't know how they feel about me, but i know that i hold them no ill will at all.

i guess being extremely happily married makes it easier for me to say that.

i feel the same way, though i do think we can fall out of love... but perhaps we just have differing definitions of "love". but yea, i don't think people are over somebody else if they still harbor resentment, bitterness, etc.
 
it isn't that I am still not over it, it took me a while to get to that but it got to a point where I was over it. Then we started talking again and it was cool that we patched our friendship and could talk but it was over and I was over it. Closer we get as friends though the more I see why I was in love with her in the first place and though we have both changed a great deal since I keep wondering if I have fallen in love with her or the new her all over AGAIN? That was the main thing I suppose. I'm not ruining my life by sitting here for 2+ years and crying over it but I really think I wanna be with her again?
so confusingggggggggg

and yeah those of you who are laughin or saying you can't say without mroe info, that was the point lol. SilentZero has come closest with "if you have to ask then you obviously are." =\
 
Someone rehost that on bbzzdd or something. I am only here for the pic, and have nothing to commit on him wanting to bang his ex one more time.
 
Originally posted by: gopunk
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
I only dated 5 women EVER before i got married. I felt like i was in love with all 5 at the time that i dated them and even now really only think of them with fondness, no bitterness.

i'm not sure that we ever "fall out of love" with someone. at least that's how it was with me and my ex's.

i don't currently have ANY contact with any of them and have never made such an attempt since i broke up with them, so i don't know how they feel about me, but i know that i hold them no ill will at all.

i guess being extremely happily married makes it easier for me to say that.

i feel the same way, though i do think we can fall out of love... but perhaps we just have differing definitions of "love". but yea, i don't think people are over somebody else if they still harbor resentment, bitterness, etc.

You are right. i didn't actually mean we never fall out of love, but i do feel that a lot of those warm feeling remain. when i think back to these women i think of them fondly and my heart feels warm.

i don't actually mean love in it's full definition but just love as in that feeling of warmth in the heart.
 
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Join the club.

But I get to be President!
Broke up over 10 years ago.

She's remarried (#4 !!)

god damn!!!! I wish you the best!
Don't mean it in a bad way but I don't want to end up like you though, if I'm not in love with her I want to knwo so I can once again move on and not worry about it, if I am in love with her then Of course I wanna be with her! Probably wouldn't happen so it would be easier if I just dun like her =\... 10 years is a long time !
 
Originally posted by: StormRider
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Am I still in love with my EX Ashley!?!? I mean come on seriously what do you think because this is really all I think about and it is really bugging me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*edit*
SHE broke up with me. It ended 2 years, 2 months, 3 weeks ago exactly.
*edit2*
Pic, she is on the left =p..... i was sick...
*edit3* Thanks to RossMAN for hosting the pic!!

Shazam!!! She's hot!!!!!
You're drunk, aren't you?

 
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