Originally posted by: Mojoed
Originally posted by: aleutgrl
Looks like you communicated more to others online than you did to me.....and--I guess indeed the outcome is what you had anticipated it becoming from the very start of our relationship--failure from the start--you had no faith.
Everyone--he has decided wisely to move on--but now he is more financially challenged with having to start from scratch and pay all the dues/fees/pet deposits/etc. I guess no one really won here. Karma. I have a house to sell--and a car to pay off--and equity to put down a new condo "all of my own".
HE had no faith? Where was your faith in putting his name on the deed? Oh yeah that's right, you had none.
Even if you are the ex-fiance, which I don't think you are, I don't believe for a second you would have stayed with him long-term anyway. Ridiculously irrational for you to expect him to pay for half under the circumstances he outlined. Trust works both ways. Why didn't you put him on the deed prior to asking him to share expenses? Once again, you didn't have faith in the relationship.
Just the fact that you would come here and attempt to rub it in shows me what type of person you are.
He absolutely made the correct decision. No effing doubt about it.