Am i being too protective if i dont let my girl...

[Boxxcar]

One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

 

[cooliodealio]

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

Your logic didn't really make any sense. Your argument basically boiled down to, "Guys like boobs. So she should flash everyone."

 

[Rebasxer]

Why don't you have her wear a full body robe and veil, Mr Taliban

 

[lrad50]

Originally posted by: Rebasxer
Why don't you have her wear a full body robe and veil, Mr Taliban

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[LanceM]

Originally posted by: trmiv
They don't call that protective, they call it controlling.

 

[latino666]

I would not care if she showed it off. Hell, if I see some one looking at her I'll give them a look that says, "I get to play with them."

And you are being too protective

 

[EPCrew]

Originally posted by: latino666
I would not care if she showed it off. Hell, if I see some one looking at her I'll give them a look that says, "I get to play with them."

And you are being too protective

:thumbsup: sweeeet... that's a good one. counterfeited..

 

[BrokenVisage]

Originally posted by: lrad50

Originally posted by: Rebasxer
Why don't you have her wear a full body robe and veil, Mr Taliban

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[Boxxcar]

Originally posted by: cooliodealio

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

Your logic didn't really make any sense. Your argument basically boiled down to, "Guys like boobs. So she should flash everyone."

So what about my post didn't you understand? Logic? It is purely retorical. Quite simply stating that a guys brain work a bit different than a girls brain in terms of whats more important at the moment. Have you never read Dave Barry. Besides, where did I state that she should flash everyone? I do not recall saying that. It's quite obvious that you have a hard time interpreting written english plus the fact that you are without a doubt as gay as George Michael!!!

 

[91TTZ]

You can't tell her what she's allowed to do, but she can't make you stay with her, either. She can wear what she wants, and you can dump her for a girl who sees things the way you do.

Neither one of you is obligated to do anything.

 

[CalvinHobbs]

http://linseydawnmckenzie.hugetit.us/beach.htm , any ressemblance to this one???
ok seriously speaking, talk it out with her, let her know how you feel and see if you can find a compromise but don't impose, and if she still wanna wear and you can't live with it then most probably both of you are with the wrong person.

 

[cooliodealio]

Originally posted by: Boxxcar

Originally posted by: cooliodealio

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

Your logic didn't really make any sense. Your argument basically boiled down to, "Guys like boobs. So she should flash everyone."

So what about my post didn't you understand? Logic? It is purely retorical. Quite simply stating that a guys brain work a bit different than a girls brain in terms of whats more important at the moment. Have you never read Dave Barry. Besides, where did I state that she should flash everyone? I do not recall saying that. It's quite obvious that you have a hard time interpreting written english plus the fact that you are without a doubt as gay as George Michael!!!

I'm not sure where you got the idea that I'm gay from my post. That's especially strange considering I'm a married man. Clearly, you are homophobic since you have repeatedly made accusations toward people that they are gay.

 

[bluemax]

You know, a woman can dress beautifully without having a plunging neckline to show off as much boob as possible. (And no, that doesn't mean bulky sweaters, you weirdos.) In so doing, she's advertising her sexuality to anyone in line-of-sight. I'd call that fishing for a male upgrade. Yes, it may make a woman feel good to make every man in a 10-foot radius pant like a racedog, but it shows NO consideration to the man she's supposed to be WITH, as she's flaunting herself to anyone and everyone.

I still maintain my original stance - it's not good for a woman to do that, and I question her motives. OTOH, if she has no intention to change, and you've said you don't like her flashing boobs to everyone on the street, you can either live with it (until she moves on to the next man) or move on yourself.

I ALSO maintain my original stance that most guys in here care nothing beyond staring at boobs, and get all riled up at the very idea of someone NOT showing them. Get a life... and a "significant other."

 

[bluemax]

Oh yeah..... porn link. I wonder when the mods will delete or lock?

 

[Stretchman]

Let her go, time for her cleavage to fly free!

 

[Boxxcar]

Originally posted by: cooliodealio

Originally posted by: Boxxcar

Originally posted by: cooliodealio

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

Your logic didn't really make any sense. Your argument basically boiled down to, "Guys like boobs. So she should flash everyone."

So what about my post didn't you understand? Logic? It is purely retorical. Quite simply stating that a guys brain work a bit different than a girls brain in terms of whats more important at the moment. Have you never read Dave Barry. Besides, where did I state that she should flash everyone? I do not recall saying that. It's quite obvious that you have a hard time interpreting written english plus the fact that you are without a doubt as gay as George Michael!!!

I'm not sure where you got the idea that I'm gay from my post. That's especially strange considering I'm a married man. Clearly, you are homophobic since you have repeatedly made accusations toward people that they are gay.

You're right, you didn't mention anything about being gay and because I happen to mention the GAY word two times, gee I must be a homophobe. Not mention tha fact that everyone knows that if you're married it's completely inconceivable that you could possibly be gay and be married at the same time. Face it, you need to come clean now.
Open that closet door Coolio and admit that you're raving!
My only point in this whole thread is that guys like boobs. Gee, do we need a poll to come to conclusion on this or what?

 

[toekramp]

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

my god this is one of the worst formed thoughts i have ever viewed on ATOT.

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: krnxpride83
poll added.. damn... am i an insecure bastard?

that's affirmative

yup

 

[Boxxcar]

Originally posted by: toekramp

Originally posted by: Boxxcar
One thing that the originator failed to mention was how much cleavage? If it's any amount, then Yes, you're gay. If you have a problem with your GF showing her cleavage, WTF!
Most men would prefer to see a bit of cleavage and not have the wife/GF wear her clothes up to her ears.
Let me put it this way. You go out shopping together (not for very long I might add) and she points to a shirt on a rack and asks what you think. Any normal guy isn't interested in the shirt in the least bit, he is only thinking about how nice it would be if she just unbuttoned her blouse then and there and showed you her boobs. You're driving around in the car and she mentions how nice the landscaping is around that house over there and all you're thinking about is how nice it would be if she went down on you while you're driving. Let's face it guys, gals think of everything from food, decorating, kids, etc and guys are thinking about .....well.........boobs.

my god this is one of the worst formed thoughts i have ever viewed on ATOT.

OMG is right! How could anybody say such stuff. THIS IS AN OFF-TOPIC FORUM. YOU DON'T ACTUALLY BELIEVE THE STUFF THAT YOU READ HERE DO YOU? If you do, why don't you just go back to the TV, and put on one of your favorite shows. Let's see, would that be Judge Judy, Jerry Springer, or world wrestling.

 

[Cheval]

wtf? join some wildlife groups and release the boobies into the wild and let them fly free.

 

[MidNiteMysT]

Originally posted by: MidNiteMysT
i have to side with krnx. all you guys seem to do is say its controlling. its controlling if he FORCED her to do it. but lets look at the girl for a second, why would she want to wear clothes like that anyway. cant she be a little considerate and ask how the other person in the relationship feels about it? if the guy didnt care that she dressed that way, then theres no problem, but what if he just simply didnt like it? if the guy doesnt like it and ask her if she can dress a little more appropriate, then hes automatically considered controlling and insecure? we all have different mentalitys, so we view things in different ways, thats all. i wouldnt have a problem doing something for my girl if it really bothered her and didnt like it especially when it results in other girls looking at me in a sexual way, then i understand that she wouldnt like it and do something about it for her. its all about compromise. and yea, you can all point to the same conclusion that hes controlling and insecure, but its really isnt controlling. its just being considerate, and not liking the idea of guys thinking of her sexually because her breasts are hanging out and her ass is showing off from the mini skirt. we all know what guys think, and they wont think of a girl like that as fast or easily if they are wearing respectable clothing.... well, not as much anyway. if she has you, why does she need to wear slutty clothes like that anyway? especially when shes not with you. what about that?

ok, go ahead, flame away!

no response to my post? i was expecting some sort of fight! so, whos up for it? hehe