- Oct 9, 1999
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Says it all.Originally posted by: jbourne77
It's nice hearing that I wasn't alone in my thinking. At first I was concerned I was putting too much emphasis on "the principle of the matter" and money in a situation where a friend of my wife's was involved. Upon hearing about this "offer", I questioned how solid this "friendship" must be. When I offer my friends used goods, I sell it to them for LESS than what I would get on the street, as opposed to seizing the opportunity to get MORE than what I would get on the street.
She works in a small office and everyone is pretty informal with each other. I wouldn't call them all "friends", per se, but they're close enough that they shouldn't be pulling stuff like this. And my wife always sees THEIR side of the story and she fails to see how she's being taken advantage of.
If this was OUR equipment and it was being sold to this lady, my wife would sell it to her for a nickel... after taking it to her house and setting it up for her.
And in a month when said lady decided there was no way she would use it and that it was just taking up space, she'd request that my wife remove it from her home... and my wife would, naturally, feel obligated to do so.
It's funny... guys are totally different. A friend of mine had this HUGE, old stereo system he was trying to dump a few years ago. First he tried to get a couple hundred bucks from me. "Dude, I don't even want the thing. It's humongous and it's 15 years old. I don't want it for the same reasons you don't want it." Finally, he said "just take it... I just need it out of my house."
A few weeks later a bunch of us were all out to lunch and he said "well, grab my bill and we'll call it square."
"Grab your bill? Grab my cock motherfscker! We're going to my house and loading that son of a bitch right back into your truck!"
What's a little ribbing between guys![]()
Guys just don't let "friends" get over on them, and have the easily understood tool of rough humor to say "****** You" to someone who tries without it becoming all tears and eternally nursed grudes.
Women more generally like to be "understanding" and "nice" and so can be more easily taken advantage of by a pushy female acquaintance.
Damn you, pushy female acquaintances, damn you! (Shakes metaphorical fist and glowers menancingly.)