Ok long story but well background is needed I guess. But my main question is am I a bastard for cutting my mom out of my life?
Me an my mom have never got along ever since my dad and her got divorced when I was 14. a year after the divorce I moved in with my dad. my 2 sisters and my brother stayed with my mom (at the time my brother was 13 and my sisters were 4) I kept in contact and visted my mom regularly until I moved to AZ, during this time she would go thru modes of being perfectly normal to being borderline mental (later I would find out she was bi-polar yet refused to be medicated)
Well fast forward i'm 21 and i'm at work one night and she calls me up saying she is going to kill herself then hangs up on me (my sisters who are 11 now are at home alone in the middle of the night when she called me) I call 911 and get the cops to where I think she was and she was there and denies the whole incident even happend. Drama insued over the next few months. She agrees to let my dad take custidy of my sisters, and she is going to go get the help she needs. So he packs up everything and moves from AZ back to michigan. When he gets back and gets into a place she denies everything.
My dad desides this is enough and starts a very expensive drawn out custidy battle (my moms parents have alot of money). Essentially ends up comming down to me flying to michigan to back up my dad because my brother refused to testify. So she essentially forced me to get up in cort, with her entire side of the family essentially saying i'm a complete lier and disowning me.
My Dad gets custody and my sisters are doing alot better. I moved back to michigan and my mom now wants to be back in my life after the crap she made me go threw. So am I an ass for telling her to go to hell? She has done this before after I stoped talking and visiting her after other fights we had and went right back to being mental a few months later.
sorry about spelling and grammer but I can't really be arsed with it
Me an my mom have never got along ever since my dad and her got divorced when I was 14. a year after the divorce I moved in with my dad. my 2 sisters and my brother stayed with my mom (at the time my brother was 13 and my sisters were 4) I kept in contact and visted my mom regularly until I moved to AZ, during this time she would go thru modes of being perfectly normal to being borderline mental (later I would find out she was bi-polar yet refused to be medicated)
Well fast forward i'm 21 and i'm at work one night and she calls me up saying she is going to kill herself then hangs up on me (my sisters who are 11 now are at home alone in the middle of the night when she called me) I call 911 and get the cops to where I think she was and she was there and denies the whole incident even happend. Drama insued over the next few months. She agrees to let my dad take custidy of my sisters, and she is going to go get the help she needs. So he packs up everything and moves from AZ back to michigan. When he gets back and gets into a place she denies everything.
My dad desides this is enough and starts a very expensive drawn out custidy battle (my moms parents have alot of money). Essentially ends up comming down to me flying to michigan to back up my dad because my brother refused to testify. So she essentially forced me to get up in cort, with her entire side of the family essentially saying i'm a complete lier and disowning me.
My Dad gets custody and my sisters are doing alot better. I moved back to michigan and my mom now wants to be back in my life after the crap she made me go threw. So am I an ass for telling her to go to hell? She has done this before after I stoped talking and visiting her after other fights we had and went right back to being mental a few months later.
sorry about spelling and grammer but I can't really be arsed with it
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