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AIM convo w/ the gf...tell me what you think....plz.

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umm seems your lady friend has an attachment problem. Either she wasn't getting the love as a baby, and now she is an adult and is very preoccupied with not hurting you; because maybe she feels she isn't right for you, and you might deserve better. Anyhow... Get Away from the lady... even better she wants to get away from you... already presuming how the relationship will end She has alot of insecurities, beit her mom, school, walmart.. that's not a healthy relationship to be in. She will always mostly be dependent upon you.

Man sucks to be you.. girl talking on AIM over something as serious as this. Most girls do it over the phone.. or maybe during a lunch break. Don't fret... she'll realize and come to her senses, and if your still into it. Maybe you both can have fun again, but if this is always on the back of your mind, then it's only going to get more annoying. Good luck dude...

happy april fools..(is it a holiday?)
 
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Originally posted by: mto81
You're 18-years old and type like a retarded 10-year old. That's what I think.


I especially liked these parts:

"likke wht?"

"jus wntd to kno why isi"

"kno wht ur thinkin....yah"
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You are so mean! 😛😀

Anyways, in your conversation, she has mentioned a few times that she's not ready. That means that she's not ready! There is nothing you can do. Don't be surprised if things won't work out right but good luck!



 
Originally posted by: maladroit
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it's not like you have to read it, heck even enter this thread...
 
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: maladroit
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it's not like you have to read it, heck even enter this thread...
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yeah, why the hostility towards this?
 
I couldn't make it through the whole thing, but here is some advice that was passed on to me too late: "Don't ever get involved with anyone that has more problems than yourself."
 
Dude, listen to her... SHE'S NOT READY.

She has pains, insecurity, and other issues. They don't just go away -- they will be dealt with at some point. Let her deal with them now, and then maybe your relationship will have some chance to prosper afterward.

The longer the relationship continues, and the longer she supresses these issues -- the uglier the situation will be when it comes time to deal with them.

There's your advice.
 
she's not ready for a relationship with you, because she is bangin someone else...and someone else.. and then another...

she doesn't want to hurt you.. its a females way of saying, "I think we should go our seperate ways.."

 
This is easy:

1. She's not looking for a monogamus relationship right now. I would attribute this to her age because it's normal.

2. She wants to date other people and not really be committed.

3. She wants to have casual sex with other people and not have any strings attached.
 
My advice.
Have one more flaming romantic night. Keep the camera well hidden. Once the night is over, tell her you just wanted to give her something special to remember you by.
Then post the pics on ATOT 😀
 
thx for the advice i did get...ill talk to her this afternoon and tonite....on the PHONE this time....ill see how she feels and ask her what she wants to do...no more b/s...hope it worx out, but im doubting it.
 
I made it about a page down, you're on the downward side of the relationship and she's testing the waters to see if she can get out easily without hurting you.
 
Originally posted by: chin311
thx for the advice i did get...ill talk to her this afternoon and tonite....on the PHONE this time....ill see how she feels and ask her what she wants to do...no more b/s...hope it worx out, but im doubting it.
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You can spend less time worrying about children and spend more time on improving your typing.
 
Chin...you've already said it yourself. Let this be a lesson learned to yourself and everyone on here!!....NEVER have a emotinally involved, significant, important, ect. conversation via IM or email!! Oh man...I've learned this lesson one too many times and I will never do it again. In person is best, phone is second best. If the other person begins to bring up big topics on IM or email, simply tell them you want to talk with them in person about that. They'll respect you and your decision and the conversation will be MUCH more fruitful!
 
Dude, It looks like an attempted break-up on AIM!

You crazy kids, don't you have cajones to break-up with someone in real life? Face-to-Face?
 
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