I'll try to keep this short:
I met this girl at a club, really nice and attractive. We've been emailing and talking on the phone on and off for the past month and hung out, so to speak, had some dinners and stuff. We went clubbing twice and she seems like she really digs me. When we sit, she would put her head on my shoulders and lean in really close. Basically there is no such thing as personal space.
Now here is the kicker, last week I told her that I really liked her and then she tells me that she is still in love with her ex, which she had broken up with him a few months back. They have been hanging around each other and she is riding the fence on wanting to get back together with him, except he won't take her back because she made a mistake, but he gives her mixed signals.
I told her that I understand that it would take some time to get over and we can take it slow - then she tells me that she doesn't know what to do, if he wasn't in the picture, things would be different and that she needs to be careful what she does around me as to not lead me on (not in those words, but in a nutshell). She feels like she is far from getting over her ex. She asked me if I could revert my feelings and I told her cool, we can be friends.
So then I haven't seen or talked to her for a few days cuz she was on vacay. She gets back and we talk, in the middle of it all, she tells me she missed me. Then she visits me today at my place for the first time and we watch tv and she puts her head on my shoulders again, and her arms crossed over mines at periods of time.
Now, if we are just friends, then she is one FRIENDLY person. I've never known a person to be that touchy feely physically. Now what may I ask is going on? Any viewpoints? Anyone of you have female friends like this? Maybe this is all new to me. Feel free to ask questions.
EDIT: added more info.
I met this girl at a club, really nice and attractive. We've been emailing and talking on the phone on and off for the past month and hung out, so to speak, had some dinners and stuff. We went clubbing twice and she seems like she really digs me. When we sit, she would put her head on my shoulders and lean in really close. Basically there is no such thing as personal space.
Now here is the kicker, last week I told her that I really liked her and then she tells me that she is still in love with her ex, which she had broken up with him a few months back. They have been hanging around each other and she is riding the fence on wanting to get back together with him, except he won't take her back because she made a mistake, but he gives her mixed signals.
I told her that I understand that it would take some time to get over and we can take it slow - then she tells me that she doesn't know what to do, if he wasn't in the picture, things would be different and that she needs to be careful what she does around me as to not lead me on (not in those words, but in a nutshell). She feels like she is far from getting over her ex. She asked me if I could revert my feelings and I told her cool, we can be friends.
So then I haven't seen or talked to her for a few days cuz she was on vacay. She gets back and we talk, in the middle of it all, she tells me she missed me. Then she visits me today at my place for the first time and we watch tv and she puts her head on my shoulders again, and her arms crossed over mines at periods of time.
Now, if we are just friends, then she is one FRIENDLY person. I've never known a person to be that touchy feely physically. Now what may I ask is going on? Any viewpoints? Anyone of you have female friends like this? Maybe this is all new to me. Feel free to ask questions.
EDIT: added more info.
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