Originally posted by: Vic
I was "diagnosed" with ADD as a kid (they hadn't come up with the ADHD label back then) and I think it's a load of reeking bullsh!t. Any energetic kid who acts like an energetic kid gets a "disability" label and a prescription to speed. I met a 20-something year-old the other day who told me she couldn't read a book because she has ADD
All you have to do is sit down with the kid, teach him some self-discipline and the ability to focus his excessive energy, and you get a superstar kid. But I guess that's just too much for parents and teachers to do nowadays, isn't it? Hey, just give Tommy a pill... it's easier.
I'm trying to force myself into that mentality, but as we all know... it's difficult. The poet Rainer Maria Rilke said it best, though: (from Letters to a Young Poet)
"That something is difficult must be one more reason for us to do it."
"But those tasks that have been entrusted to us are difficult; almost everything serious is difficult; and everything is serious."
"And if only we arrange our life in accordance with the principle which tells us that we must always trust in the difficult, then what now appears to us as the most alien will become our most intimate and trusted experience."
"[ I ] wish that you may find in yourself enough patience to endure and enough simplicity to have faith; that you may gain more and more confidence in what is difficult"
Basically, life sucks because it's supposed to suck. Growth is the acceptance of the fact that life sucks. We eventually become almost masochistic, enjoying pain with the faith that every pain brings a greater joy.
Now, to be willing to travel on a journey is not good enough. One also needs to know where they are, where they are going, and how to get from point A to B. The first is becoming obvious to me. The second is slowing coming into view. The third is, unfortunately, my reason for asking this question.
I'm slipping into my somewhat-poetic mode when I start thinking about philosophy at this level. Forgive me.