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Ack... my girlfriend wants to show people this video.

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Koharski

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okay, so my girlfriend is a very arty person. She is allways writing or drawing or taking pictures. So one day she asked me if she could film us... uhh... making love. Yeah, I guess that would be okay, but she wanted to film without me knowing. She would have the camera set up usually, but would only be filming sometimes.

after 7 or 8 nights I just wasn't really comfortable with this, so she put the camera away.

so anyway, a month passes and she shows me this video she made. It is very artistic and tasteful, but it's still us having sex. She wants to enter it in an art competition thingie, and I jsut don't know if i'm comfortable with that.

I mean, it's done well so it isn't exactly pronography, the lighting and such were edited so that it's pretty censored.

so should I let her show it or not? I mean, it's good. that much is true, but I just don't know if i'm comfortable with the idea.

it looks alot like sin city, with the whole grey/color contrast. i'm almost tempted to post a pic to show what I mean.


EDIT: here is a screencap so you can see what I mean, but this is all i'm posting. jeez people.
 
How can you expect us to answer properly if you don't upload it to YouTube for the whole universe to see first?
 
If you aren't comfortable with it, you shouldn't allow it. If it were me all I would ask is that there isn't an easy way to tell who it is.
 
You seriously want advice without us evaluating the video? If its artsy, show it. I don't think it will break any rules here.

I would be happy to post it on my webhost and password protect it (to keep random people or search engines from finding it), then after X amount of days I will remove it per your request.
 
I'd definitely let her know you have hesitations about it. Not speaking up could definitely be the worst thing you could do.
 
If it was me, I would not have allowed the 'sessions' to be recorded, let alone allow public viewing. Moral, ethical, and distaste aside, thats some serious potential blackmail material. If you two were to ever break up, well, lets just say that women can be very vindictive.
 
okay, I uploaded a screencap so you get the idea. jeez, you horny nerds.

thank you everyone else for your helpful advice.


seriously though, if i'm hesitant about showing people I don't see how POSTING IT ON THE INTERNET would help.
 
Originally posted by: Bateluer
If it was me, I would not have allowed the 'sessions' to be recorded, let alone allow public viewing. Moral, ethical, and distaste aside, thats some serious potential blackmail material. If you two were to ever break up, well, lets just say that women can be very vindictive.
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Well it's too late for that. She already has all the originals.


To the OP, first talk about it to you gf. Personally, I think as long as you can't identify people from the movie I don't think why would you care.
 
yes, at some parts. I doubt they would recognise me if they didn't know me that well though. My hair mostly gives it away, I have curly hair and it's easy to tell.
 
That pic doesn't looks too bad. Can people tell its you in the vid?, can they tell that its "real" sex and not acting? If it still looks pretty anonymous I think you should go for it.
 
In all seriousness, it is hard to say. I can see how she might be one of the few people who regard sex as an "art" unless its her profession or something, which I hope for your sake its not.

It looks like one of those Mexican movies where they're all making love with those weirdass angles.

Also, is there any music, or are the uhmm..."sound effects" of the event adding to the "artsy" feeling of it?
 
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