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Originally posted by: HotChic
I'm a VERY conservative Christian, and I favor abstinence with sex ed.
However, I also favor teaching, along with the facts about sex, STDs and pregnancy, the difference between right and wrong, and that it is wrong to have sex prior to marriage. I know that's probably not popular, but I bet it's more effective than either abstinence or sex ed alone.
I know what most conservatives fear about teaching kids sex ed, but honestly there's no reason to fear facts and data as long as you're teaching them morals and right/wrong at the same time.
Why is it "wrong" to have sex prior to marriage? Personally, I think it's unequivocally preferable that sexual relations be "saved" for committed relationships but what justifies calling premarital sex "wrong" and marital sex "right?"
Kids are very astute at detecting incongruent arguments. Now if your kid grows up home schooled with ZERO exposure to a television . . . you might have a fighting chance. Otherwise, they will be keenly aware that SEX is a pervasive element of our society.
Good parents will tell their kids the truth. It is a choice . . . not between right or wrong . . . but between self-respect and self-indulgence. Unfortunately, a society that emphasizes conspicuous consumption has no moral standing (or ability whatsoever) to convey such a message.
As much as I disagreed with Pope John Paul II and likely Pope Benedict XVI on gay marriage, homosexuality, and contraception . . . at least they are consistent when it comes to a message of self respect, respect for others, and responsibility to others.