I think that there should always be a choice no matter what. That way, no one's rights or opinions or what have you gets infringed upon. It's like the heater in a house. You could turn the heat up to make one person comfortable. The other guy has to deal. Or, you could turn the heat down to make the other person comfortable, and the one that's cold can put on a sweater. 2 people are happy that way.
This is one of those issues that will never really be solved. No one can be convinced that their view is wrong. It is perhaps a sign of how limited humans are as a people, that we can allow issues to be so dividing, and that we act so irrationally defending our positions on these issues.
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Neither side can take the moral highground, as both sides have done some abominable things defending their views.
So, I say that it ought to be a choice. Not one to be made lightly, but still a choice. Condemning a person to no choice at all is the greatest of crimes.
edit: Yes, I know the baby doesn't have a choice, but there is a reason for that. It's in no position to make a choice.