Originally posted by: Subterranean Homesick Alien
Originally posted by: djheater
I have three kids under 9, when we moved into this new house two years ago, we decided to have no television service whatsoever, and it's been great.
It's awfully nice to have a 4.5 year old who will entertain herself for an hour looking through animal picture books.
I honestly think my children have more imaginative and immersive play than their gameboy\NickJr.\SesameStreet peers.
My 10 year old son has everything in his room to turn himself into a couch potato: cable TV, DVD, VCR, X-Box and a stereo, and yet he is not a couch potato and spends enourmous amounts of time sitting at his desk drawing or constructing things out of paper, tape, foil and cardboard, etc.
Early in his life I would say, "Okay that's enough of the video game or movie watching for now, it's time to go do something else." Now I don't have to say anything at all; he has learned to discipline himself.
Both my wife and I grew up in fundamentalist households where everything was banned for fear that we would not develop imaginative play or whatever. When we'd go to other people's houses all we wanted to do was watch their TV because we didn't have one at home. While we both may have ended up in artistic careers that require creativity, we don't have much love for our parents either.
It has become my opinion that authoritative and prohibitive methods risk producing weak willed children who are unable to discipline themselves, always looking to authority figures for guidance and instruction.