You've been really good about not taking offense and getting defensive. I'd like to commend you on that. I'm not picking on you either.
While I see your concern, the problem was you never read the reviews. You looked at the pics and made a decision. The other thing is you've never tried to diagnose why your card is running hot. There are people with the same design card as yours who are not having issues with temps. I don't have your card, but before I bought an aftermarket cooler (unless I just wanted to) I'd try reseating the stock one. It's a mass produced item. There's always going to be some that slip through QA. The other option would be to RA it because it is overheating.