a serious question....

[Jumpem]

Ok, a girl I know lost her virginity this past October. Come to find out she's been with about twenty-five guys since then. She's used sex as aw way to try to get genuine love and affection from guys. Almost all of them were one night stand kind of things. With many of them she didn't really want to do anything, but she wouldn't say no. She was afraid of being raped anyway if she did. She just likes to be held and cuddled, but most of the guys she met obviously didn't want that. She's very easy, but she's trying to change. She went to get tested, and has to go get the results.

I'm not really sure what I'm thinking. I talk to her for hours every day. We've hung out cuddled and groped a little. Why am I having feelings for her? I really don't know if I can get past how loose she was. I wish I'd met her before. I don't know what to do...

I guess just throw your thoughts out... thanks!

 

[TallBill]

Uh... dont bring it to ATOT you tard.

 

[Fiveohhh]

As long as shes clean and if ya really like her you'll get over it.

 

[rudder]

:camera:'s

 

[Yax]

Do her, but use a condom. Maybe you'll realize that you don't want her anymore afterwards. But then again, you might change her ways. She'll most likely not stick with you much longer if you don't do her now.

 

[gopunk]

i would just forget about her, you're not going to get over her past any time soon

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: Jumpem
Ok, a girl I know lost her virginity this past October. Come to find out she's been with about twenty-five guys since then. She's used sex as aw way to try to get genuine love and affection from guys. Almost all of them were one night stand kind of things. With many of them she didn't really want to do anything, but she wouldn't say no. She was afraid of being raped anyway if she did. She just likes to be held and cuddled, but most of the guys she met obviously didn't want that. She's very easy, but she's trying to change. She went to get tested, and has to go get the results.

I'm not really sure what I'm thinking. I talk to her for hours every day. We've hung out cuddled and groped a little. Why am I having feelings for her? I really don't know if I can get past how loose she was. I wish I'd met her before. I don't know what to do...

I guess just throw your thoughts out... thanks!

my mind puts me in the same situation as you, but luckily the girl i know isnt loose like that... that's just nasty. i hope she dont have any std's, but i cant really say i'd feel sorry for her if she did. that's really disgusting what she's done.

 

[Electric Amish]

Please refer to this...

amish

 

[gigapet]

WTF???????

Another YAGT without pics thats like 5 today

To the poster:


what are you trying to accomplish here? are you bitching or asking a question

 

[Hammer]

it all depends on you, if you can deal with it or not. no one can tell you what to do.

 

[Encryptic]

::sigh::

This girl really needs to seek some serious help if she thinks the only way she can get some "cuddling" is by giving it up to a bunch of random guys. I'd say if you really like her, try to encourage her to see a psychiatrist about this. I don't think she's necessarily a bad person, she just has some serious issues that she needs to work through.

For now, be supportive of her, encourage her to change her ways and try not to get too emotionally involved with her until she seems to genuinely have straightened herself out. If you guys are talking and have a lot in common, maybe you can have a relationship if you can accept her past and she can sort out all her issues. Good luck!

 

[dabuddha]

Run. Run fast. Run hard. Run far. Just run dude.

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: gigapet

what are you trying to accomplish here? are you bitching or asking a question

I'm not really bitching or asking a question. I'm just sort of confused about how I feel. I just want to see how other people view this.

 

[SoylentGreen]

Ask if she's done greek. Tell her that you want to be the first.

 

[Yax]

Originally posted by: Jumpem

Originally posted by: gigapet

what are you trying to accomplish here? are you bitching or asking a question

I'm not really bitching or asking a question. I'm just sort of confused about how I feel. I just want to see how other people view this.

Alright, you can't seem to get the job done. Send her this way please.

 

[gigapet]

I feel like this type of girl would not be able to have a any type of healthy relationship (friendship, intimate or other) until she recieved significant counseling. She obviously has many issues to work through.

Best advice:

Next time get pics b4 posting and get this girl some professional help before she ruins here life by contracting HIV or some other STD

 

[gururu]

no woman deserves to be considered the way you consider her. it is none of your business to talk about how many people shes been with. you know enough to decide whether shes a keeper (at least for you) or not.
my experience tells me that she won't be kept, so you might be in a losing battle.

Test your love for her by dating her, but practice abstinence. See how long she goes without getting the fix elsewhere. And uh, be careful cause you can catch plenty of stds just by kissing.

 

[TheShiz]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: Jumpem
Ok, a girl I know lost her virginity this past October. Come to find out she's been with about twenty-five guys since then. She's used sex as aw way to try to get genuine love and affection from guys. Almost all of them were one night stand kind of things. With many of them she didn't really want to do anything, but she wouldn't say no. She was afraid of being raped anyway if she did. She just likes to be held and cuddled, but most of the guys she met obviously didn't want that. She's very easy, but she's trying to change. She went to get tested, and has to go get the results.

I'm not really sure what I'm thinking. I talk to her for hours every day. We've hung out cuddled and groped a little. Why am I having feelings for her? I really don't know if I can get past how loose she was. I wish I'd met her before. I don't know what to do...

I guess just throw your thoughts out... thanks!

my mind puts me in the same situation as you, but luckily the girl i know isnt loose like that... that's just nasty. i hope she dont have any std's, but i cant really say i'd feel sorry for her if she did. that's really disgusting what she's done.

what is really funny about this is that if it were a guy that had sex with 25 girls in the same period of time it would be a different story, maybe she actually likes using guys for sex.

 

do you go to U of I? Cause one of my former friends went there, and she turned into a slut as well.

 

[filmmaker]

I really don't know if I can get past how loose she was.

She's not going to be tight foreve--

Ah, forget it....

 

[Platypus]

oh my god shut up

 

[Jumpem]

Originally posted by: FallenHero
do you go to U of I? Cause one of my former friends went there, and she turned into a slut as well.

Nope I go to school in upstate NY.

 

[Blieb]

once a slut, always a score.

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: gigapet
I feel like this type of girl would not be able to have a any type of healthy relationship (friendship, intimate or other) until she recieved significant counseling. She obviously has many issues to work through.

Best advice:

Next time get pics b4 posting and get this girl some professional help before she ruins here life by contracting HIV or some other STD

I think my advice posted above is better in this case.

 

[Toasthead]

Once a slut always a slut.

Or maybe this her way of saying "you're not cute enough'?