A question of morality

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artikk

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: russianpower
Yes it is wrong. It's called adultery.
how is it adultery? :confused:

Some protestant religions(like mine) don't allow divorce therefore, even if the woman is legally divorced, she's still married in their eyes
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Adultery is the act of unfaithfulness in marriage that occurs when one of the marriage partners voluntarily engages in sexual activity with a person other than the marriage partner. It is prohibited both in act and in desire in Two of the Ten Commandments of the Decalogue, "You shall not commit adultery", "You shall not covet your neighbor's wife" (Deut.5:18,21, Ex.20). The punishment for adultery is death by stoning for both parties in the Holiness Code of Law, "If a man commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death" (Lev.20:10, Ezk.16:40, Jn.8:3). Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God (1Cor.6:9).
 

Ulfwald

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See this thread first.

If she is not going to flip out on you and all she wants is to ride your love missle, then go for it. If she is looking for emotional attachment and then run, run very far and very fast.

Otherwise: Saddle up and go to town.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: russianpower
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: russianpower
Yes it is wrong. It's called adultery.
how is it adultery? :confused:

Some protestant religions(like mine) don't allow divorce therefore, even if the woman is legally divorced, she's still married in their eyes
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Adultery is the act of unfaithfulness in marriage that occurs when one of the marriage partners voluntarily engages in sexual activity with a person other than the marriage partner. It is prohibited both in act and in desire in Two of the Ten Commandments of the Decalogue, "You shall not commit adultery", "You shall not covet your neighbor's wife" (Deut.5:18,21, Ex.20). The punishment for adultery is death by stoning for both parties in the Holiness Code of Law, "If a man commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death" (Lev.20:10, Ezk.16:40, Jn.8:3). Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God (1Cor.6:9).
your bible quote says the person is married for adultery to occur.
you are misinterpreting things.

she is not married whether you want to believe that or not.

 

BriGy86

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Originally posted by: russianpower
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: russianpower
Yes it is wrong. It's called adultery.
how is it adultery? :confused:

Some protestant religions(like mine) don't allow divorce therefore, even if the woman is legally divorced, she's still married in their eyes
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Adultery is the act of unfaithfulness in marriage that occurs when one of the marriage partners voluntarily engages in sexual activity with a person other than the marriage partner. It is prohibited both in act and in desire in Two of the Ten Commandments of the Decalogue, "You shall not commit adultery", "You shall not covet your neighbor's wife" (Deut.5:18,21, Ex.20). The punishment for adultery is death by stoning for both parties in the Holiness Code of Law, "If a man commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death" (Lev.20:10, Ezk.16:40, Jn.8:3). Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God (1Cor.6:9).

if she's not protestant then i don't see how its relevant
 

platinumike

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Originally posted by: russianpower
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: russianpower
Yes it is wrong. It's called adultery.
how is it adultery? :confused:

Some protestant religions(like mine) don't allow divorce therefore, even if the woman is legally divorced, she's still married in their eyes
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Adultery is the act of unfaithfulness in marriage that occurs when one of the marriage partners voluntarily engages in sexual activity with a person other than the marriage partner. It is prohibited both in act and in desire in Two of the Ten Commandments of the Decalogue, "You shall not commit adultery", "You shall not covet your neighbor's wife" (Deut.5:18,21, Ex.20). The punishment for adultery is death by stoning for both parties in the Holiness Code of Law, "If a man commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall be put to death" (Lev.20:10, Ezk.16:40, Jn.8:3). Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God (1Cor.6:9).


wow, i've never seen any verses blatantly say you will not be allowed into heaven for a certain sin. Are thoose verses old or new testament?
 

kogase

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Originally posted by: platinumike
wow, i've never seen any verses blatantly say you will not be allowed into heaven for a certain sin. Are thoose verses old or new testament?

It is practically impossible to get into heaven if you comit the sin of wealth. Like, being rich.

Edit: By the way, they are all Old Testament besides the last quote.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: platinumike
wow, i've never seen any verses blatantly say you will not be allowed into heaven for a certain sin. Are thoose verses old or new testament?

It is practically impossible to get into heaven if you comit the sin of wealth. Like, being rich.
wealth isn't a sin. what you do with your wealth can be.

 

kogase

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: kogase
Originally posted by: platinumike
wow, i've never seen any verses blatantly say you will not be allowed into heaven for a certain sin. Are thoose verses old or new testament?

It is practically impossible to get into heaven if you comit the sin of wealth. Like, being rich.
wealth isn't a sin. what you do with your wealth can be.

"It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a rich man to get into heaven" - Jesus

Camel and needle. Knock yourself out.
 

newParadigm

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idk, i personally dont believe in sex w/o an exlusive relationship/marriage, but im not you, so go for it!
 

mdchesne

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ok.. you're 18 and she's 31.... morality has nothign to do with what you said... morality is if you actually want to do it with someone that much older than you!
 

gbeirn

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Hello, long time reader of these forums, but I just decided to register cause I'm going thru something similar. I'm 22 shes 36, we just met recently and its good, we meet each others needs but we both realize what the limitations of the realtionship are. She has kids, I'm going to school. As long as you make it known in the begining what everyone expects and have good communication, I say go for it. Enjoy! And when I say enjoy, oh I mean it. Be prepared to learn a thing or two! :)
 

EatSpam

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.

Consenting adults...as long as you are both honest in the relationship.
 

imported_Ed

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.

go for it.
 

imported_Ed

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Originally posted by: :confused:SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.

and why are you still on here and not on her? :confused:
 

I can't believe you even have to think twice about this. Pass her phone number over to someone who knows what they are doing.