A question of morality

SnowyEnigma

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Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.
do you consider it wrong?

 

no0b

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right or wrong; no, just as long as you two understand your relationship then its perfectly okay.
 

Ronstang

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How is this a question of morality? If she wants the beef and you want to give her the beef and no one is cheating and you are both over the age of consent then WHY ARE YOU HERE when you should be SHAGGING!!!!!!!
 

SnowyEnigma

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.
do you consider it wrong?


Nah I don't since I'd be sincere about it and actually care. And if I get some sex on the side, hey ++! At least it would be the long hot passionate kind and not short morning one. But I just want to see what you guy thing.
 

sixone

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I wouldn't say it's wrong, as long as you're both consenting adults. However, it is dangerous. She is in a vulnerable place emotionally, and one or the other of you may develop feelings that the other doesn't share.

Make sure to reduce as much as possible the likelihood that she can get pregnant. You don't want to be an unintentional sperm donor, and you also don't know who else she's getting 'special company' from. If you're gonna do it, do it carefully.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.
do you consider it wrong?


Nah I don't since I'd be sincere about it and actually care. And if I get some sex on the side, hey ++! At least it would be the long hot passionate kind and not short morning one. But I just want to see what you guy thing.
if you don't think it is wrong screw what everyone else thinks.

go fvck her brains out. :D


edit: are you a virgin?

 

mugs

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Why do you care what we think? Do you think it's wrong? If so, don't do it. If not, do it.
 

alien42

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Woud you, the old and wise folk of anandtech, consider "helping" a recently divorced women sexually an evil thing? I mean the woman's hot (sorry no pics), though about 10 years older then I am. She recently went through a divorce and needs some "special company" since aparently her husband hasn't given any in years.

Reply.

Oh btw I'm 18 and she's 31.
do you consider it wrong?


Nah I don't since I'd be sincere about it and actually care. And if I get some sex on the side, hey ++! At least it would be the long hot passionate kind and not short morning one. But I just want to see what you guy thing.

atot agress that you are a pimp and deserve to be worshipped

ok, maybe not the worshipped part
 

MX2

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If you are asking this question, then there must be some part of you that this idea just doesnt sit right with.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: mchammer
She's taking advantage of you dude. Didn't you ever see the graduate??
sure she's taking advantage of him. she doesn't want a relationship. she wants c0ck.
but so what?

 

SnowyEnigma

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Originally posted by: mugs
Why do you care what we think? Do you think it's wrong? If so, don't do it. If not, do it.

I'm asking you guys because I'm young. So I don't know a lot of things about life and how people act. I'm asking this because advices from people like sixone are useful. He made a good point so I'll put out there to her that this is purely casual.
 

radioouman

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It's wrong. Don't do it. If you don't have any long term plans for her, let her find someone that does.
 

sixone

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Originally posted by: SnowyEnigma
Originally posted by: mugs
Why do you care what we think? Do you think it's wrong? If so, don't do it. If not, do it.

I'm asking you guys because I'm young. So I don't know a lot of things about life and how people act. I'm asking this because advices from people like sixone are useful. He made a good point so I'll put out there to there that this is purely casual.

Ummmm...Sixone is a she. But thanks.

You posted her age after my earlier post. She's getting close to that age where the biological clock starts ticking, and if she's looking for just a sexual thing, she may have decided that she's not likely to marry again. It's possible that she's decided to have a child on her own, so you'd better be prepared for that. You don't want her to make you a father without your permission. That's probably a discussion you want to have, and the sooner the better.
 

mooncancook

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You falling straight into Satan's trap! well, morality aside, it's all fun and cool until one of you start developing a feeling for the other. Better make sure both party keep their emotion and feeling in check.

hmm btw this reminds me of the movie "The Graduate"