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ElFenix

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

I just realized.
You're the only other gay guy I know of on this site.
We have the same icon.
Coincidence? I think not.
aka ALL PEOPLE THAT USE THIS ICON ARE EITHER OPENLY OR SECRETLY GAY!
:p

you should look for GayTOT in sigs
 

Zysoclaplem

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No. I could kiss a girl right now. Or a guy. I don't find either disgusting. I don't find it strange or weird to watch two girls make out. Or two guys. Or a straight couple.
I can't explain why. It just doesn't bother me. I am very accepting and tolerant.
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
I'm not disgusted by it, it just doesn't interest me much.

EDIT: I think it has to do with it being so common in movies, TV, magazines, etc. Maybe you wouldn't be disgusted by guys kissing if you'd been exposed to it your whole life (like we are with straight kissing).

You might have a point here in your EDIT......but I guess we'll never know.
I don't know, you could poll the straight sons of gay couples... I bet they'd say the same thing about guy-guy kissing that I say about guy-girl kissing.
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

I just realized.
You're the only other gay guy I know of on this site.
We have the same icon.
Coincidence? I think not.
aka ALL PEOPLE THAT USE THIS ICON ARE EITHER OPENLY OR SECRETLY GAY!
:p

you should look for GayTOT in sigs

I would... if I cared enough.
:D
But really, I've never ever seen GayTOT in anyone's sigs.
Not even in GeekDrew's.
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
No. I could kiss a girl right now. Or a guy. I don't find either disgusting. I don't find it strange or weird to watch two girls make out. Or two guys. Or a straight couple.
I can't explain why. It just doesn't bother me. I am very accepting and tolerant.

I love watching 2 girls making out.
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Meh.
I'm not disgusted by it.
Hell, I can even think someone women are pretty damn hot.
But I'm not aroused by them.

And what about kissing in public? Should you kiss in public if you don't want to see gays guys kissing in public as well?

You can start your own thread about that. Entirely different topic and will steer people off topic.

Meh, it's really close to being on subject. :)
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
I'm not disgusted by it, it just doesn't interest me much.

EDIT: I think it has to do with it being so common in movies, TV, magazines, etc. Maybe you wouldn't be disgusted by guys kissing if you'd been exposed to it your whole life (like we are with straight kissing).

You might have a point here in your EDIT......but I guess we'll never know.
I don't know, you could poll the straight sons of gay couples... I bet they'd say the same thing about guy-guy kissing that I say about guy-girl kissing.

I also have come to disagree with your EDIT....seeing as 2 girls don't bother me, I didn't grow up seeing that.
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

I just realized.
You're the only other gay guy I know of on this site.
We have the same icon.
Coincidence? I think not.
aka ALL PEOPLE THAT USE THIS ICON ARE EITHER OPENLY OR SECRETLY GAY!
:p

It's ok, folks, he's a no0b. You may excuse his lack of not knowing the Who's Who of ATOT. :D

- M4H

Bah. I was just kidding.
):
 

zoiks

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

I just realized.
You're the only other gay guy I know of on this site.
We have the same icon.
Coincidence? I think not.
aka ALL PEOPLE THAT USE THIS ICON ARE EITHER OPENLY OR SECRETLY GAY!
:p



Bad news for Brutuskend.;)
 
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Originally posted by: leftyman
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

im more confused now

About your sexuality?

 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
I'm not disgusted by it, it just doesn't interest me much.

EDIT: I think it has to do with it being so common in movies, TV, magazines, etc. Maybe you wouldn't be disgusted by guys kissing if you'd been exposed to it your whole life (like we are with straight kissing).

You might have a point here in your EDIT......but I guess we'll never know.
I don't know, you could poll the straight sons of gay couples... I bet they'd say the same thing about guy-guy kissing that I say about guy-girl kissing.

I also have come to disagree with your EDIT....seeing as 2 girls don't bother me, I didn't grow up seeing that.

I still don't understand why most straight and bi guy absolutely LOVE it when they see 2 girls kissing.
:confused:
 

SampSon

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I'm straight but have had gay encounters in my endeavors. Kissing men still does not appeal to me at all.
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Meh.
I'm not disgusted by it.
Hell, I can even think someone women are pretty damn hot.
But I'm not aroused by them.

And what about kissing in public? Should you kiss in public if you don't want to see gays guys kissing in public as well?

You can start your own thread about that. Entirely different topic and will steer people off topic.

Meh, it's really close to being on subject. :)

Not really if you were to think about it.....
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
I'm not disgusted by it, it just doesn't interest me much.

EDIT: I think it has to do with it being so common in movies, TV, magazines, etc. Maybe you wouldn't be disgusted by guys kissing if you'd been exposed to it your whole life (like we are with straight kissing).

You might have a point here in your EDIT......but I guess we'll never know.
I don't know, you could poll the straight sons of gay couples... I bet they'd say the same thing about guy-guy kissing that I say about guy-girl kissing.

I also have come to disagree with your EDIT....seeing as 2 girls don't bother me, I didn't grow up seeing that.
I was only talking about straight guys' reactions to guy-guy kissing. I doubt any non-bible-thumping American male is disgusted by lesbian make out scenes.
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: dethman
huh. there appear to be a lot of gay people here.

I made a thread about gays and gay marriage awhile back, but it got booted to the political forum.
Either that, or locked, I dunno.
>.<
 

zoiks

Lifer
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Originally posted by: leftyman
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
Originally posted by: leftyman
im confused

Straight man gets disgusted when thinking about kissing another man.
Straight man wonders if gay men get disgusted when thinking about kissing women.
Gay man says yes.
Gay man says that he doesn't speak for all gay men.

im more confused now

I wonder how you deal with real life. Pretty straightforward there what GeekDrew put.
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Meh.
I'm not disgusted by it.
Hell, I can even think someone women are pretty damn hot.
But I'm not aroused by them.

And what about kissing in public? Should you kiss in public if you don't want to see gays guys kissing in public as well?

You can start your own thread about that. Entirely different topic and will steer people off topic.

Meh, it's really close to being on subject. :)

Not really if you were to think about it.....

Yes really if you think about it.
This thread is about being disgusted when seeing 2 guys kissing and/or a guy and girl kissing for other people.
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
I also have come to disagree with your EDIT....seeing as 2 girls don't bother me, I didn't grow up seeing that.

I still don't understand why most straight and bi guy absolutely LOVE it when they see 2 girls kissing.
:confused:
The explanation I've heard is that they find it easy to imagine themselves being involved in the tableau.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: hjo3
I'm not disgusted by it, it just doesn't interest me much.

EDIT: I think it has to do with it being so common in movies, TV, magazines, etc. Maybe you wouldn't be disgusted by guys kissing if you'd been exposed to it your whole life (like we are with straight kissing).

You might have a point here in your EDIT......but I guess we'll never know.
I don't know, you could poll the straight sons of gay couples... I bet they'd say the same thing about guy-guy kissing that I say about guy-girl kissing.

I also have come to disagree with your EDIT....seeing as 2 girls don't bother me, I didn't grow up seeing that.

I still don't understand why most straight and bi guy absolutely LOVE it when they see 2 girls kissing.
:confused:

I love to see two cute guys kissing. It's hot. So I understand why they would feel that way about two girls. Obviously it's hot.
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTT
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Meh.
I'm not disgusted by it.
Hell, I can even think someone women are pretty damn hot.
But I'm not aroused by them.

And what about kissing in public? Should you kiss in public if you don't want to see gays guys kissing in public as well?

You can start your own thread about that. Entirely different topic and will steer people off topic.

Meh, it's really close to being on subject. :)

Not really if you were to think about it.....

Yes really if you think about it.
This thread is about being disgusted when seeing 2 guys kissing and/or a guy and girl kissing for other people.

I know what my thread is about...and is NOT about if you and your partner should kiss in public.....drop it.
 
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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
I still don't understand why most straight and bi guy absolutely LOVE it when they see 2 girls kissing.
:confused:

For the same reason we like watching them give each other massages, get in tickle fights, and have lesbian sex:

Because it's hot! :p

- M4H
 

DaTT

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
I still don't understand why most straight and bi guy absolutely LOVE it when they see 2 girls kissing.
:confused:

For the same reason we like watching them give each other massages, get in tickle fights, and have lesbian sex:

Because it's hot! :p

- M4H

Spoken like a true champ :thumbsup:
 

Asthmaboy

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Originally posted by: DaTTI know what my thread is about...and is NOT about if you and your partner should kiss in public.....drop it.

I'll drop it after you answer this:
You made this thread after being disgusted by the thought of 2 guys kissing, no?

Zysoclaplem - I know it has to be about that it's hot, but I know there's a deeper explanation.

hjo3 - I guess that's it.
I'l look further into it.
Hate to do it, but that's just they way I am. It'll also help develop my skills as a psychologist. :D
 

hjo3

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Originally posted by: Asthmaboy
Originally posted by: DaTTI know what my thread is about...and is NOT about if you and your partner should kiss in public.....drop it.

I'll drop it after you answer this:
You made this thread after being disgusted by the thought of 2 guys kissing, no?
Dude, threadjacking's bad netiquette... just forget it. I see your point, this just isn't the place to make it.