A Question about "Sluts"

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Looney

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Originally posted by: Aztech
So, you guys would take your turn with a girl that sleeps around? I mean we're not gonna be exclusive, so I'd know she was with someone else the night before...

Are you sure you should be having sex with her? And not asking her for vagisil advice?
 

Adica

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok. So I've been talking to this girl friend about her sleeping around. She'll sleep with a guy on the first date, or at least by the second. She says she's just a sexual person. I want to talk sense into her, but I don't know what to say. I mean "slut" has bad connotations, but I can't find my argument against hers. All I wanna do is have sex with her.

I mean you guys know you want a girl to have sex with you on the first date. That would be awesome, right?

Please comment on this.

Hmmmm, You say she's a slut.....but you're not gettin' any?
I can, but should I ?


If you want to, and you can, and she wants to, then that is adult consensual sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.
 

iamtrout

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Who cares?!

fvck fvck fvck, drink drink drink, fvck fvck fvck, die. That's all life needs to be.
 

Aztech

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Originally posted by: Rastus
You have a friend that is a girl and she'll sleep with anybody in the world but you? Welcome to the friend zone. You are being used.
Well, yeah, I'm being used. I'm not telling the whole story right now either. That's a thread for another night. It suffices to say, that I have slept with her. But now I know she's sleeping with others too. She's pretty open about it. What would you do?
 

Eli

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Slut is a highschool term.

People have sex. A lot.

That's life.
 

astrocase

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You're a prude. Every long term relationship required good chemistry and that meant I had sex with them on the first date. Coincidence you say? No. I'm just a horny ah heck.
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok. So I've been talking to this girl friend about her sleeping around. She'll sleep with a guy on the first date, or at least by the second. She says she's just a sexual person. I want to talk sense into her, but I don't know what to say. I mean "slut" has bad connotations, but I can't find my argument against hers. All I wanna do is have sex with her.

I mean you guys know you want a girl to have sex with you on the first date. That would be awesome, right?

Please comment on this.

lol. how old are you?
 

Aztech

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok. So I've been talking to this girl friend about her sleeping around. She'll sleep with a guy on the first date, or at least by the second. She says she's just a sexual person. I want to talk sense into her, but I don't know what to say. I mean "slut" has bad connotations, but I can't find my argument against hers. All I wanna do is have sex with her.

I mean you guys know you want a girl to have sex with you on the first date. That would be awesome, right?

Please comment on this.

lol. how old are you?
Early thirties, I don't get it.

 

iwearnosox

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Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok. So I've been talking to this girl friend about her sleeping around. She'll sleep with a guy on the first date, or at least by the second. She says she's just a sexual person. I want to talk sense into her, but I don't know what to say. I mean "slut" has bad connotations, but I can't find my argument against hers. All I wanna do is have sex with her.

I mean you guys know you want a girl to have sex with you on the first date. That would be awesome, right?

Please comment on this.

Hmmmm, You say she's a slut.....but you're not gettin' any?
I can, but should I ?


If you want to, and you can, and she wants to, then that is adult consensual sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Herpes ftw!

 

Aztech

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Jan 19, 2002
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Originally posted by: astrocase
You're a prude. Every long term relationship required good chemistry and that meant I had sex with them on the first date. Coincidence you say? No. I'm just a horny ah heck.
Just looked it up.
One who is excessively concerned with being or appearing to be proper, modest, or righteous.
Guilty, as charged. :)

 

Aztech

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Ok, ok. I'll have to tell the whole story another night. You guys will love it. It's better than fiction, IMO.

Feel free to continue discussion here. I'm getting some good info, but not answers to my dilemma. Thanks anyways. :(
 
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umm, i suppose I have a slight problem with it. There are alot of STDs out there that can be contracted even with use of a condom (herpes), which can be pretty dangerous and can really fvck up your life.
 

notfred

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I cared about this sort of thing in high school. Then I grew up and realized people like to have sex. Now I'm just concerned with whether or not I enjoy spending time with someone, not the people she might have enjoyed spending time with in the past.

Grow up.
 

Aztech

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Originally posted by: IAteYourMother
umm, i suppose I have a slight problem with it. There are alot of STDs out there that can be contracted even with use of a condom (herpes), which can be pretty dangerous and can really fvck up your life.

I think it was disturbing not to see more answers like this so far. I worry.
 

sixone

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OP: do what you want. Just remember that old saw about laying down with dogs, and getting up with fleas. Have fun!! :D
 

iwearnosox

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok, ok. I'll have to tell the whole story another night. You guys will love it. It's better than fiction, IMO.

Feel free to continue discussion here. I'm getting some good info, but not answers to my dilemma. Thanks anyways. :(

What's your dillema? You act like you're 12. You're an adult now, if you want to hit it then do so. Otherwise this is just bait for the kleenex jockeys.
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok. So I've been talking to this girl friend about her sleeping around. She'll sleep with a guy on the first date, or at least by the second. She says she's just a sexual person. I want to talk sense into her, but I don't know what to say. I mean "slut" has bad connotations, but I can't find my argument against hers. All I wanna do is have sex with her.

I mean you guys know you want a girl to have sex with you on the first date. That would be awesome, right?

Please comment on this.

lol. how old are you?
Early thirties, I don't get it.

find a hooker.
 

Aztech

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Jan 19, 2002
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Originally posted by: notfred
I cared about this sort of thing in high school. Then I grew up and realized people like to have sex. Now I'm just concerned with whether or not I enjoy spending time with someone, not the people she might have enjoyed spending time with in the past.

Grow up.
But it's not in the past. I'm saying I'm gonna have sex with her one day, and a few days later someone else will. Could you deal with that? I don't know if I can. Again, I'm probably leaving out things that would change people's opinions here. I don't wanna go into all of it 2nite.

 

Aztech

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Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok, ok. I'll have to tell the whole story another night. You guys will love it. It's better than fiction, IMO.

Feel free to continue discussion here. I'm getting some good info, but not answers to my dilemma. Thanks anyways. :(

What's your dillema? You act like you're 12. You're an adult now, if you want to hit it then do so. Otherwise this is just bait for the kleenex jockeys.
I don't know what that means. I think relationship wise, I am about 12.
 

iwearnosox

Lifer
Oct 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: notfred
I cared about this sort of thing in high school. Then I grew up and realized people like to have sex. Now I'm just concerned with whether or not I enjoy spending time with someone, not the people she might have enjoyed spending time with in the past.

Grow up.
But it's not in the past. I'm saying I'm gonna have sex with her one day, and a few days later someone else will. Could you deal with that? I don't know if I can. Again, I'm probably leaving out things that would change people's opinions here. I don't wanna go into all of it 2nite.

This reminds me of the time Harry Potter rode his broom and then something happened to him involving magic. You know that movie, wasn't it awesome?
 

iwearnosox

Lifer
Oct 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Originally posted by: Aztech
Ok, ok. I'll have to tell the whole story another night. You guys will love it. It's better than fiction, IMO.

Feel free to continue discussion here. I'm getting some good info, but not answers to my dilemma. Thanks anyways. :(

What's your dillema? You act like you're 12. You're an adult now, if you want to hit it then do so. Otherwise this is just bait for the kleenex jockeys.
I don't know what that means. I think relationship wise, I am about 12.

A 12 year old locked inside a 30-something year olds body? On ATOT? No way, I don't believe you.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: notfred
I cared about this sort of thing in high school. Then I grew up and realized people like to have sex. Now I'm just concerned with whether or not I enjoy spending time with someone, not the people she might have enjoyed spending time with in the past.

Grow up.
But it's not in the past. I'm saying I'm gonna have sex with her one day, and a few days later someone else will. Could you deal with that? I don't know if I can. Again, I'm probably leaving out things that would change people's opinions here. I don't wanna go into all of it 2nite.

Look, if you don't feel good about doing it, it's because you know it's a bad idea. I know you want it anyway, but you have to decide whether it's worth the risk. We don't know the whole story, so we can't give you a valid opinion.