A particular cat keeps coming around

mikeymikec

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Sorry for the not-particularly-helpful topic, but I can't think of a better way to summarise this.

It's to be expected where we live (built-up area, farming fields within a mile) that cats would wander into/around our garden, and that chances are they're well domesticated and they like stroked by my wife, etc.

However, a particular cat (I don't know much about cats, but it looks fully grown and young) keeps coming around, miaows piteously, wants to come into our house given half the chance, and will sometimes camp out on our doorstep for quite a while. It is slightly nervous around me (I don't typically approach cats, I'm allergic), but not to the point where I would question whether it has been domesticated. My wife strokes it quite a lot, and since my wife did a bit of sunbathing, the two have spent quite a bit of time together.

Normally cats (in my experience) tend to act a bit aloof. Generally, they will let you stroke them if you cross paths, but once you stop it isn't long before it moves on. This cat however seems to be very clingy.

It doesn't have a collar on, but its fur looks healthy and it doesn't look skinny or fat. I've seen it hunt and catch a bird once, and I think it eats them (there's a load of feathers but no corpse behind a bush in the back garden) rather than just playing with them like a lot of well-fed domesticated cats do because they're not hungry but the instinct is still there.

My wife is sympathetic to the cat and is worried about it. She has fed it a treat once, then tried a little standard dry cat food. It ate the former and ignored the latter (different occasions). My opinion is that the cat looks healthy and it ignored dry cat food, so it can't be going hungry. As far as I'm aware, my she hasn't fed it any more.

We've thought about putting a sign up to ask whether this cat has an owner, and if it doesn't, perhaps we should call the RSPCA for them to pick it up. If it had an owner, then chances are it would know how to handle winter time.

Advice/suggestions appreciated.
 

Agent11

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There was a guy who put cameras on cats and watched what they did, pretty interesting. Cats will spend time with other people, even sleep in their beds. Just leave the cat alone and don't interact with it if you don't want it around. It's just being friendly.

I would never call the RSPCA, they kill half the animals they take.
 
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Genx87

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Heh cats pick their owners when they are strays. Looks like this one is picking you or your wife :D
 

_Rick_

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Thread useless without pics (of wife ('s pussy)).

Anyway, I probably wouldn't worry too much about it, unless you're worried about it creating mounds of offspring.
In that case just ask around whether anyone claims ownership.

Outside-cats are great pets, so I wouldn't give it away, unless you have outside pets that are prone to fall to cat-attacks. If it is fed and healthy, there's really only limitless procreation to worry about.
 

lxskllr

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Heh cats pick their owners when they are strays. Looks like this one is picking you or your wife :D

It would be funny if humans worked the same way. Starts with some dude hanging out on your porch, and you offer him the occasional beer. After a couple weeks he's sitting at the dinner table, and you're not exactly sure how he got there. In a few months he's using the spare bedroom, and everyone treats him like he's your brother, and has always been there. At that point, he becomes the de facto owner of the house, and your pay check gets split three ways instead of two, and nothing seems unusual about that arrangement :^D
 

Agent11

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My neighbors love having my bengal around, catches mice and birds. The guy across the street is a bit of a garden nut and used to chase the robins with a stick. lol.
 

IronWing

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Congratulations on your new cat! Be sure to get it its shots and get it fixed before you bring it inside.
 

Leymenaide

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I see that you are in the E.U.
The Dutch call them roof rabbits.
The French keep the foot on the rabbit in the abattoir because it is difficult to tell a well dressed rabbit from a well dressed cat.

You have some options.
 

mikeymikec

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The cat in question.
 

Azraele

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Normally cats (in my experience) tend to act a bit aloof
Cats can be very affectionate. it depends on their personality. I had one rescue who would have happily spent 24/7 in my arms if I'd let him. He constantly asked to be picked up.

What sort of advice are you looking for? The cat may be a dump off or lost, though more often than not, they get dumped rather than lost. If you're inclined to give it a home, get it fixed. You can also check to see if it's been chipped. A lot of vets will scan for chips for free.
 

Newbian

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You are now the pet of this cat so make sure you do your duties to keep your master happy.
 

d4a2n0k

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Once you feed a cat, its yours.

My younger brother once fed a cat when we were kids. He became our cat. He had no collar and micro-chips werent around then. Ten years later we were playing with the cat in the front of our house. A car comes driving by and screeches to a halt. Guy gets out and says "Herman!, thats my cat!" He disappeared and they thought he was hit by a car etc. He let us keep the cat as we had him for much longer than him. We had that cat 22 years!
 

SheHateMe

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Please take that cat in. If not, it will likely end up euthanized if you turn it in.


Take it to the vet and get her/him checked on. She/he looks healthy so it might have a clean bill of health. If you can afford it, please let the cat stay.

I am saying this as a person that took in a stray kitten back in 8th grade and fought hard to keep him. He was an awesome cat. He died my Sophomore year in College.
 

Baked

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Have you named the cat yet? It has chosen your wife as its human subject. Now bow down to your cat overload.