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a message to all the boys on AT from a girl.

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Wow, I just read through this entire thread... I too am amazed at how easy it is for some ppl jump to conclusions, geez...


<< If you don' want guys to stare at your breasts, develop some good lanquage skills and give them something else with which to occupy their minds. >>


Hmm interesting statement ImTyping because if the converse were true then if a girl doesn't have "good lanquage skills" or isn't engaging to the guy she's talking to, then the guy has every right to leer at her breasts? Of course it doesn't. Guys should refrain from blatantly staring at a girl's chest because it's rude to do so, not because her conversation doesn't hold his interest, geez. Glancing or staring when she's not looking is another matter. We all have our hormones. Just exercise a little self-control that's all. I just hate it when they think it's ok to stare and don't realize how rude it is!


<< No, you said, and I cut and paste:

<<relax pal, geeze and if 96% of the male populartion that i talk to can do it subtly enough for me not to notice, i think you can to.>>

YOU are the one who said that 96% of the population stares at you so subtly that you do not notice. YOU are complaining that some men stare openly. It does not take a huge leap of faith to figure that you are saying 4% stare openly. >>


Hey ImTyping, please make note of the bolded section. I hope you realize how that makes all the difference and that you apologize to Kat. I know from myself from conversing with her, she really is not a girl that is full of herself. Quite the contrary actually.


<< And finally for the ladies

Something to stare at... >>


Hanpan, thank you THANK YOU you just made my day wonderful. 😀


Oh yeah, congrats on the Platinum status Kat! 🙂

Everyone, check out this way cool geeky shirt I ordered for her. Can any of the true geeks at heart here figure it out? 😉
 
Whenever I talk to women I always make sure I look at their face. Usually their eyes, but if I'm staring at their eyes too much I just start looking around at other parts of their head.(e.g. mouth, cheeks, hair, etc.).😀😀😀 If I don't know the person, or I'm not talking to them then I will most likely look at other parts of their body.:Q:Q:Q
 
I don't know guys. I think this was a pretty damn entertaining thread.

I also think that some of you mistook ImTyping's posts as incensed flames when, in actuality, they were well thought out and quite funny, to be truthful.

I have an easy time NOT staring at chick's boobs so I guess I have it lucky. That isn't to say that I don't WANT to stare at them, nay GRAB them, but I can control myself.

Let's see. I used to be able to post this when we had only a few thousand members. Has it now gone the way of the banned?

Boobs are good
Boobs are great
Whip out your boobs
Let's masturbate!
 
reminds me of that episode on family guy: (ladies, please don't be offended, only taking it from a scene from family guy)

peter tells this joke:
what are women's breast used for?

they're used for us to stare at them while they're talkin to us

omg, he got a sexual harrassment charged to him and sent to girl camp LOL
 
Oh, and I speak with a modicum of experience:

I dated a girl in my office ~1.5 years ago. She told 3 girls in her dept that I have the perfect looking "package" (using other words)

For weeks after I wondered why, when I walked by, those girls did their little giggle dance. Then she told me what she had said.

Almost two years later and I still feel strange walking through that dept.🙂
 


<< when speaking to a girl dont stare blatenly at her breasts, we do not take this as a compliment rather it makes us uncomfortable.

thankyou.

*kat. <-- was gawked at alot tonight at work. >>



Thanks for telling me the REAL true. I would have thought that you chics enjoy it. I've been wrong for all these years!!! How did I suvive!!! 😉
 


<< everyone is forgetting the whole point of boobs, they catch the attention of the opposite sex. THATS WHAT THEY'RE THERE FOR! >>



Is there anything truer than this in this planet?
 


<< I agree...

If the guy's a stranger then PLEASE look @ our faces.

But if the guy's a boyfriend. Hey, they're all yours, baby! Enjoy yourself!

🙂

--Sarah >>



Sweeeeet.
 
i cant believe this thread is still on the first page.

i guess sully and GL's theory is correct.


*kat. <-- boobies for all. boobies for all indeed.
 
And continuing on the ta-ta topic:

Here are some polically correct phrases;
She is not a BABE or a CHICK - She is a BREASTED NORTH AMERICAN.
She does not have a KILLER BODY - She is TERMINALLY ATTRACTIVE.
She does not have BREAST IMPLANTS - She is MEDICALLY ENHANCED.
She does not have MAJOR LEAGUE HOOTERS - She is PECTORALLY SUPERIOR.


And now for a funny little story.

There was an elderly man walking on the beach when he came across a very attractive woman. He approached the woman and asked her if he could feel her breasts. "No" she said, "what are you some kind of pervert".

"Oh, please" he said "I'll pay you $20 for a feel".

"No way" she said.

"I'll pay you $100 just to touch them"

The woman thought for a second and then repeated "No way".

"I'll pay you $500 then"

The woman thought about it again for a little longer and then agreed. The man placed his hand on her breasts and closed his eyes. He started to mumble and then began to say "oh God, oh God, oh God" over and over.

The woman asked him why he kept saying "oh God".

The man replied "oh God, oh God ....... where am I going to get $500 from".
 
I think we're all hoping that if we keep it on page one, you will eventually post pic's of the subject matter!! 😉

BTW: I try NOT to stare, but sometimes it really HARD not to. Kinda like rubber necking accidents on the freeway.

But I feel it's not right to gawk at boobies, like it's not right to gawk at people's deformities. They can't help it.

But some times neither can us guy's. We do try though!! (some of us anyway)
 
well.... this could've been a fun thread. 😉 i think i'll just read posts with 10 lines or less.
and through all this, i think i've gained some insight into how to look, when to not look, why i look, what happens when i look, etc etc. etc etc
 
If that's all you got I wouldn't even bother staring. I prefer the whole package..including a pretty face and especially pretty eyes. Now you might catch me staring into those if you have them🙂

GF, yours are just an added plus!
 


<< Please, people can we stop referring to them as "boobs", that's so childish.








I prefer calling them "life giving orbs".:Q >>



LOL 😀

my ex disliked all the slang terms for body parts. Her's were breast, nothing else. and ..... yah you get the point.
Does any other women in here feel the same way?


peace
sean
 
Here's a quick thought:

If women didn't want us to stare at something we're not supposed to see, why not show them off? Cmon, if I knew what they looked like, I'd stare much less.

eakers, cmon, flash 'em off next time and the guy won't stare again. He'll be satisfied with knowing what they look like. Its a win-win situation for all.

Better yet, flash them here, show 'em off with some pics (someone had to ask, no?) -- we'd stop gawking over them as well.

Its just a thought. 😛

vash
 
snip....


<< Infact, when I see a cute girl, my first reaction is to look around and see how many people are staring at her. Usually you can find a few freaky people blatantly staring at her until they can no longer see her anymore. >>



I've done that too (the "looking at the people when a cute girl walks by" part.) It is amazing how long many guys look at attractive girls when they walk by. :Q
 


<< everyone is forgetting the whole point of boobs, they catch the attention of the opposite sex. THATS WHAT THEY'RE THERE FOR! >>

Finally, someone who realizes the truth 🙂

Breasts are glands meant to produce milk for offspring. By Humans breasts serve to get the attention of the opposite sex, just like the, er, certain red-colored bodypart of female baboons =)
 


<< I have big boobs, I am way past caring about people staring at them. I'm not going to change the world, and I'm certainly not going to wear matronly clothing or tie them down. But if you want my respect, or want me to even consider dating you, don't act like you're twelve years old when you're talking to me... if you behave like a child, you'll get treated like one.
~robyn >>




So if I act like a little kid around you, do you promise you'll give me a spanking! 😀
 


<< And finally for the ladies

Something to stare at...


As a general waring prolonged exposure to a computer monitor while staring might cause blindness

so don;t forget to blink... >>



Oh, I love you!! Your my new bestest friend now. 😀

Red Dawn: Thank you, thats sweet. 🙂
 
I am the 47 year old father of three, including a beautiful teenage daughter. I can state without equivocation that girls dress in a "stylish" manner to impress their girlfriends as much or more than the boys. however, my daughter (who is quite intelligent) still doesn't get it, that what she thinks looks trendy or good on her is going to ellicit a very different response from boys or men, and that her stylish clothes are interpreted by men as being a sexual message.

lets get this straight - if you dress in a revealing or provocative manner - you are going to get looks, including having your mammaries evaluated. you wear a thong, people are going to check out your butt, whether you like it or not. if you wear something that highlites or reveals the shape of your breasts, they are going to get looked at.

while you may take exception to the notion that you dress provocatively, it is not up to you to decide what is provocative, it is up to everbody else who sees you.

to expect that the rest of the world is going to change is opinions to suit you is naive. i'm sure that if you do not want your breasts looked at, there is a mode of dress that would discourage that. if you chose not to dress that way, be forewarned that people are going to make their own judgements aboput what signal you are sending them, and some will interpret this as sexual, even if this is not your intention. if you don't want guys to check out your breasts - consider wearing a Burka!! thats the whole point of that outfit.

my advice - get over it - i'm tired of women wanting it both ways - they want to dress to show off their bodies, then get pissed off when somebody notices ("harrassment"). Can you spell "double standard" I'm not going to poke out my eyes or become a eunch to satisfy your sense of what is socially acceptable.:disgust:
 
Houston, we have a problem. The statement above is one of the most intelligent post ever posted on AT 😀 EVERYONE RUN FOR COVER!!!
 
BOOBIES!!!!!!! Hey its just as bad for girls to check out our butts..... but b/c we can't see you doesn't make it any worse 😛
 
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