A Girl...

[Killrose]

Remember: (1) She is still living with this guy! (2) She, by going out with you, is testing the waters for an emotional break-up with her "current" live-in lover. I would not get too excited about falling in love with her as she will be falling out of love all the while. Not good.
I could go on and on, but unless you want to be her counselor, as wel as her lover, with no doubt a
lot of static from her ex in the mix (three of you, not two), don't pursue it untill she makes the break, and
has plenty of time to recover, and then decide you are the one for her.

 

[BigToque]

<< (1) She is still living with this guy! >>



She lives with her parents.



<< (2) She, by going out with you, is testing the waters for an emotional break-up with her "current" live-in lover >>



I wont go out with her if shes with another guy. That would be kinda dumb

Maybe she just used a few bad phrases that unwittingly caught my attention. I'm not gonna act any different for a little while. If these things keep popping up, then I'll take it as a sign. Shes still just a friend.

 

[Infidelity]

Sarcasm? or that kind of stuff never happens. And by any chance if she is a bit serious then you better jump on it. Forget about the whole fact that she has a boyfriend!

 

[teddymines]

<< Sarcasm? or that kind of stuff never happens. And by any chance if she is a bit serious then you better jump on it. Forget about the whole fact that she has a boyfriend! >>


But if she falls for him, who is to say this same tactic might be used by some other guy?

Best thing to do is rent a video or dvd (tasteful!), turn the heat down low, and introduce a comforter. See what happens. If you're legal, a little wine never hurts. Ask gently probing questions. Tell her you like her and wish she didn't have a boyfriend. The pity thing ("I'm so lonely") rarely works. Be honest and confident. Smile.

 

[weezergirl]

hahha. i honestly have to say i've never heard THOSE lines before. funny stuff. she definitely wants u but she sounds kinda weird so maybe u should rethink if u want her

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

shes looking for a little action on the side maybe

 

[teddymines]

<< she definitely wants u but she sounds kinda weird so maybe u should rethink if u want her >>


Yeah, she's only 20. Most women don't get the fool-around stage taken care of until 25-30, then it dies down when they want to settle down, then it picks back up again!

For guys, it's always on. We're so much simpler...

 

[MichaelD]

.........the kick is up...it's looking good...it's right down the middle..........oh..............IT'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!!!

Does her BF go to the same school. Does he live closeby you? Do you know him? Here's what happened. She's been having problems with said BF lately; lots of probs. He's not paying attention to her anymore. Sex is whambamthankyoumaamgonein60seconds.

She's looking for attention, someone to "make her feel pretty again." All women do this whether they are 15 or 50 years old. It's the nature of the beast. If someone else had given her a ride home last night, she'd have come on to them too.

Hmm? What's that? You didn't realize that.....HELL YES! She wanted your bone, dude. Offer her another ride...quickly, before someone else scoops it.

I have a policy regarding "taken women"

1. Not my buddy's girlfriend
2. Not a "close" coworker i.e. same side of the building

I have NEVER in my life made a woman do anything she didn't want to do...never. But i have no problem being with a woman who obviously has no respect for her man or her marriage. As long as it's consensual sex, and you're both over 18, then it's GoTime!

I'll prolly get blasted for voicing my opinion, but that's OK; everyone is entitled to their opinion. Some folks (nutcases) feel that it's wrong to have sex before marriage. IMO, you're out of your freakin' mind if you buy the cow without drinking the milk first! Sheesh, who wants a dead fish, right?

Go for it!!!!

 

[bunker]

Just do her











*Pathetic attempt at copying the Nike motto*

 

[Chad]

Remember, these are all the same people that if you asked the question from the BF point of view...

"My girl slept with another guy, what should I do"

They'd all be clamoring to kick his (your in this case) behind.

Do nothing until she's in the clear. But beware of a girl who does this without a reason. She's prolly just a ho, and later it'll prolly all happen to you.

 

[HowardStern]

<< She wants attention. Don't do the chasing in this situation. If she wants you, she'll chase you and initiate everything. >>



I agree. Girls love to do stuff like this because they like the attention they get from it. Think of it was the female equivalent of a practical joke.

 

[TheRouterNinja]

no guts no glory =)

 

[Farbio]

to quote swingers:

you're so money baby, and you don't even know it!! you've got the beautiful babydolls eatin out of your hand

 

[Shaka]

Green light means GO!