A co-workers said ?I want a husband.?

[Quixfire]

Early this morning one of my co-workers said to me out of the blue that she wants a husband. This took me by surprise and I wasn't sure where to lead this conversation. We talked for a few more minutes and in closing I said I hope she finds a better guy than my wife married, me of course. She smiled and said she would be happy with a guy like me.

A little later one of her friends stopped by to tell me how nice I looked today. She complimented on my goatee, I just grew it back, and my longer hairstyle.

And just a few minutes ago another friend of the original co-worker stop in to tell me how handsome I looked today. All three of these ladies work together and are friends outside of work. They have not given me any indication that they are trouble makers or indecent in the last year I have worked with them.

Is it safe for me to assume that one if not all of them like me more than just a co-worker or am I being paranoid? Should I be careful in future conversations with these three ladies?

Or should I just accept the compliments as they are and enjoy the rest of the day?




Please understand I am happily married to my wife and I have no desires for other woman and being faithful to my wife is very important to me.

 

[FoBoT]

the chicks are after you, run and hide

p.s. something sorta similar happened to me at church

i have had a full beard for years. a couple weeks ago i shaved it off and got comments from 3-4 women that never talk to me , so just chalk it up to casual conversation/change

 

[Ticks]

The life of a sexy man is not an easy one. Accept the compliments

 

[Riceball]

Did someone just say fivesome?

 

[bluehorizon]

Monogomy is for ugly people. Fvck them all and have fun doing it, unless of course they're ugly, then you should sue them for sexual harassment and walk away with a phat check. That is all.

 

[Babbles]

Time to get a new job!

 

[yankeesfan]

YOU STUD YOU!

 

[Monkey muppet]

take the compliments like a man

 

[MrChad]

Did anyone else read that as "She compliemented on my goatse"?

I've been on ATOT too long.

 

[Ulfwald]

best thing you can do is tell them Thank you for the compliment. and keep it professional.

 

[Mojoed]

Sounds like a good problem to have.

I'd just take the compliments in stride. It's nearly impossible to decipher a woman's true intentions, but three women?!

 

[Doggiedog]

I smell Christmas Party scandal.

 

[OulOat]

Is this the married man effect?

 

[BigJ]

Four-some

EDIT: You're married

Five-some

 

[Doggiedog]

Originally posted by: OulOat
Is this the married man effect?

Yes and it sucks hard.

 

[rudder]

Originally posted by: Babbles
Time to get a new job!

"Mom, I will be able to send money to you soon. One of my coworkers said she will be giving me a blow job."

 

[Phoenix86]

If the three of them are talking about you seperatly, then you can rest assured they are talking about you together outside of work. One or more of them are interested in you, take the compliments and watch yourself.

 

[SchrodingersDog]

Let it go a while longer, they're so hot for you they'll start getting really nasty soon. Then you can sue their asses off and take half the company.

 

[dquan97]

Just accept it graciously. I know it's hard, but you'll get used to it.

 

[Ulfwald]

Originally posted by: SchrodingersDog
Let it go a while longer, they're so hot for you they'll start getting really nasty soon. Then you can sue their asses off and take half the company.

Make sure you catch it all on tape too, so you have evidence. Document everything.

Women yelling sexual harrassment = man without job.

Man bring harrassment charges= hard to prove because no one will believe it.

so gather your evidence, cover your butt.

 

[GiggityGiggity]

options....
1. They recently had a conversation together, and you were the topic.
2. They are testing you, for whatever sick reason. To see what they have to do to get you to flirt back
3. They learned of some bad news, about you. And are trying to build up your ego before your boss/wife/etc... stomps you flat.
4. 3 seperate women who know eachother gave you meaningless compliments all on the same day; coincidence

 

[TheNinja]

1. Invite them back to your dojo for some spicy chili.
2. While at the dojo make a compliment about their pretty blouse.
3. Tug their hair, but not too hard.
4. French...HARD!!
5. Pork...HARD!!!
6. Wail on guitar...HARD!!!!

 

[shimsham]

something is afoot. watch your back.

 

[kreb]

Originally posted by: Doggiedog

Originally posted by: OulOat
Is this the married man effect?

Yes and it sucks hard.

Seriously..where were all these women BEFORE getting married??

 

[Specabecca]

Haha. They HOT 2 TROT like omgzorz!?!!111

Maybe you just looked nice that day? Did you do anything out of the ordinary, like, shower and shave?

(Women usually encourage personal hygiene)

edit: oh I came off harsh. I am just teasing, really don't mean to offend. Sorry