A BRAVE NEW WORLD?

TuffGirl

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While I was eating dinner tonight, I came up with a weird idea for a love/relationships algorithm for a futuristic world.... well not the algorithm itself, but the existence of one. I think of the weirdest, most random things when I have too much time to think.... :p

Well what got me thinking about it has to do with how much heartache I've suffered in my life looking for a soulmate and how the only solace I have is the optimism that there's someone out there for everyone. I think a lot of people similarly suffer from this heartache.

I thought of a way that would make this unnecessary, an algorithm that would match people up with their probable soulmate(s) based on a worldwide database and tons of variable data. Of course that would entail people all over the world giving up private and honest personal data. Also it's flawed because many people would rather search and find out for themselves that special someone. Not only that, many people enjoy the whole dating aspect and/or find someone special relatively easily.

But then what if this database is restricted somehow so that all the data is voluntarily given by those who agree to some terms that they're sick and tired of waiting, i.e. those like me and I think that would be many people. I'm talking about those who are looking for something more fulfilling, like a soulmate or someone they really connect with. Consider how many people join those dating websites who are in my situation. That's a lot of data still.

One could argue that a database won't provide that. All the numbers in the world won't ensure that connection. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.

Well I considered that and I think it's possible. A connection is never ensured but I think such an algorithm would definitely increase the odds of a connection and thereby decrease the amount of suffering in the world due to that heartache, depending on how much of a worldwide scale the database is; how many personal data and compatibility variables are inputted; how complex the algorithm is and the amount of compatibility statistics it's based on. That's why I prefaced all this by specifying it's for a futuristic world.

Einstein was quoted as having said, "Gravity cannot be held responsible for people falling in love." I have that quote on a poster I've had since freshman year college and still hangs on my room door. I wonder if he's right or if my theory has any possiblity of realizing fruition in the future. *shrug*

DISCLAIMER: I don't actually think this way about love and relationships. I'm just in a pensive mood tonight and this post is all just a "what if" scenario.

DISCLAIMER #2: I haven't actually read Huxley's book Brave New World. I just know that book is about some scary futuristic world so that's why I chose that as my thread title. I realize it may be an inappropriate title otherwise.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: Ender
I think you're thinking a bit too hard on this.
Gah, please refer to the first paragraph of my post and my first disclaimer. I know, I know.:p

 

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: fatbaby
what if the person(s) that match are fugly?
What if looks are accounted for in the compatibility statistics?

Well then jiggabillions of people will end up empty handed. Since 120% of us here want our soulmates to be uber hot, 120% of us are still single.
 

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Its called internet dating, they already have it
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

 

godmare

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: fatbaby
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: fatbaby
what if the person(s) that match are fugly?
What if looks are accounted for in the compatibility statistics?

Well then jiggabillions of people will end up empty handed. Since 120% of us here want our soulmates to be uber hot, 120% of us are still single.
What if the compatibility statistics account for how realistic the participants' expectations are and return results accordingly?

What I mean is you're right that everyone wants uber hot soulmates but considering how unrealistic that is, perhaps the algorithm can return results that may not meet exactly what you want, but what you would be realistically compatible with and not feel like you're "settling."

 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
Agreed. However, my point is not for the algorithm to help you decide whether you want to get to know somebody, but rather to give you worldwide results of that match highly probable compatibility for you.
 

BD2003

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Only what I heard on a tv commercial. Asks you a billion questions, and uses that data to run the world most secret effective algorithm for matching people. And theyre getting married too.
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: BD2003
Only what I heard on a tv commercial. Asks you a billion questions, and uses that data to run the world most secret effective algorithm for matching people. And theyre getting married too.
Oh my, that does sound like my idea but marketed to have that scary cultish feel to it. Not that my idea isn't scary, but at least I portray it as something unrealistic in the present and more as a futuristic, sci-fi idea. I'm afraid to even visit that URL.:p

eharmony.com
 

godmare

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
Agreed. However, my point is not for the algorithm to help you decide whether you want to get to know somebody, but rather to give you worldwide results of that match highly probable compatibility for you.
What exactly is the difference, as it would apply to practice?

 

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: fatbaby
what if the person(s) that match are fugly?
What if looks are accounted for in the compatibility statistics?

eh ..if such a system is perfected....(and this will happen if only we're an endangered species and have to repopulate)....we'd have genetic engineering...and everyone will look hot...hehehehe
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
Agreed. However, my point is not for the algorithm to help you decide whether you want to get to know somebody, but rather to give you worldwide results of that match highly probable compatibility for you.
What exactly is the difference, as it would apply to practice?

I guess the difference is that the algorithm would be so complex and based on so much statistical data that it would yield results that you yourself would not be able to come up with or expect. It would be almost wiser than your own judgment. After all, how many times do you meet someone interesting with whom you hit it off right away but you find out a long time later that you are not compatible with that person? Perhaps this algorithm could be perfected to the point that it would know such incompatibilities/compatibilities ahead of time and ahead of your judgment. Make sense?
 

godmare

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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
Agreed. However, my point is not for the algorithm to help you decide whether you want to get to know somebody, but rather to give you worldwide results of that match highly probable compatibility for you.
What exactly is the difference, as it would apply to practice?

I guess the difference is that the algorithm would be so complex and based on so much statistical data that it would yield results that you yourself would not be able to come up with or expect. It would be almost wiser than your own judgment. After all, how many times do you meet someone interesting with whom you hit it off right away but you find out a long time later that you are not compatible with that person? Perhaps this algorithm could be perfected to the point that it would know such incompatibilities/compatibilities ahead of time and ahead of your judgment. Make sense?
It makes sense, but I never really considered emotions finite, there would always be error or exception....

 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: godmare
Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Narse
Its called internet dating, they already have it
Nah, internet dating leaves people to their own devices, which is why it has such a low success rate IMO. There is no compatibility algorithm associated with it.

How misguided is it you need an algorithm to tell you wether or not you want to meet or get to know somebody?
Agreed. However, my point is not for the algorithm to help you decide whether you want to get to know somebody, but rather to give you worldwide results of that match highly probable compatibility for you.
What exactly is the difference, as it would apply to practice?

I guess the difference is that the algorithm would be so complex and based on so much statistical data that it would yield results that you yourself would not be able to come up with or expect. It would be almost wiser than your own judgment. After all, how many times do you meet someone interesting with whom you hit it off right away but you find out a long time later that you are not compatible with that person? Perhaps this algorithm could be perfected to the point that it would know such incompatibilities/compatibilities ahead of time and ahead of your judgment. Make sense?
It makes sense, but I never really considered emotions finite, there would always be error or exception....
True but I kinda already considered this in my original post:
One could argue that a database won't provide that. All the numbers in the world won't ensure that connection. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.

Well I considered that and I think it's possible. A connection is never ensured but I think such an algorithm would definitely increase the odds of a connection.
The program wouldn't be error free but would still be more accurate than the person's judgment.