<< its kinda like saying, if (god forbid) your uncle died of a heart attack here in the US, and someone in somalia died from falling off an elephant, which tragedy would u mourn more? if someone offered u plane tickets to attend the funeral services of either deceased, which one would u pick? thats just an example of how we as americans have an innate bias to certain events, just becuz its on american soil. just my $.02 >>
If it was my uncle in Somalia and a stranger in Maine let's say, then the choice is pretty obvious.
If it were two strangers, one from 3000 miles away the other 13,000 miles away, well then, there really isn't much of a difference to me.
I mean, in fact, I'm sure there have been at least a dozen people around my area, on the eastern seaboard (unrelated to the WTC stuff), China, India, Ghana, and Timbuktu that have died in the past day. Am I supposed to mourn all of them? Or am I even supposed to mourn the people within my area? I can easily read about their stories in the obituary--but I really think there's something...wrong for lack of a better word for someone who reads the obituary everyday and comes to tears about it.